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Small Victories

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kasey, Dec 11, 2014.

  1. Gentlady

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    My mom bought me a binder :love:
     
  2. Pret Allez

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    Hey, that's awesome, man!





    I was out in Seattle last week, so I was correctly gendered the whole week. I have wonderful friends!
     
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    saw a therapist for the first time today and I think it's going to really start helping
     
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    My fake boobies arrived today. They're actually really nice considering I paid only around 30 bucks for them.
     
  5. looking for me

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    Excellent, where did you get them for only $30 ?
     
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    Etsy, actually.
     
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    I just finished filling out all the forms for changing my gender on my birth certificate! Then I called about what version of my new birth certificate I'd need to bring in to change my gender on my photo ID, the guy said all I need is a letter from my doctor stating he deems it appropriate to change and that's all I need.

    So, a long awaited day is finally upon me! I should never have let money be the main excuse for so long.
     
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    I'm coming out to my dad! :grin:
     
  9. Kasey

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    Well my dad just accepted to see me. And he did. Then he told me my eyeshadow and lipstick were too attention drawing. C'mon I looked good.

    Then I went shopping with my brothers girlfriend for my outfit for my birthday this weekend.

    Biggggg day.
     
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    Congrats! Maybe you should start a "Large Victories" thread...
     
  11. Kasey

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    Maybe. But this thread covers all that too. Even a small victory is a win.
     
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    I'm not sure if this counts as a victory or not, since only my friends know what it is, but my binder and my packer harness just came. I can't use my harness yet because I don't have a packer yet, but I can't wait to try out my binder. I'm so excited! :grin:
     
  13. AndySammy

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    I'm getting a binder from MORF, and I can't wait to see if it fits :grin:
     
  14. LizzerDizzer

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    I was at the dollar store with my mom and sister when a middle eastern man came up to us to compliment my mother. He said that she raised a beautiful daughter (referring to my sister) and son (referring to me), I have a pixie cut and was wearing my guy clothes & sports bra, and I very pleasantly suprised he saw me as a boy and not a girl.
    There was a short period of confusion to my mom and sis, but that moment was one of my happiest moments in my life so far. My mother corrected him and he profusely apologized to me and my mom. I told him it was ok and told him it didn't bother me at all.
    On the rie home my mom and sis were kinds offended i was called a boy but i just told them that it was a compliment to me. (which admittedly might have been a very risky thing to say since they don't know im bigender)
     
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    Finally found some nice boots and a pair of pumps in my size yesterday.. they weren't cheap but now i finally have real girly shoes :slight_smile:
     
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    My sister seemed very understanding of me wanting to change my name. :slight_smile:
     
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    I was in grad school and really started dressing, I went shopping at Ross dressed from head to toe, wig, makeup and got some clothes to try on and I began walking toward the men's changing room but the gal directed me to the women's room to try on the clothes. I stood in my room a minute there were other women changing and I was so scared take my clothes off to change. That was one of the best days of my life.
     
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    Hard to find cute shoes in the right size huh
     
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    It definitely is when you have size 13..
     
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    at least he saw you, thats pretty big in itself. and early HAPPY BIRTHDAY. i know your gonna rock that outfit.(*hug*)