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Which gender do you hang out with more?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Jax12, Dec 6, 2014.

  1. CubbieBlue

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    I have always had a lot more female friends than male friends but I've plenty of guy friends too. But more woman friends and my best friend is a woman
     
  2. soulcatcher

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    I have a few friends at the moment and they're all girls.


    Though, I did have friends in the past who were mainly guys.
     
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    I only hang out with guys tbh xd
     
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    So no female unicorns?
     
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    Most of my friends are guys. I only really have 2 girl friends. I think it's nice to have both though.
     
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    I guess I hang out with guys more, since I mostly hang out with myself these days.:icon_sad:

    But it seems like historically it's been more likely to be a female I have as a friend. I have no idea why. Luck of the draw? Straight men realize I'm gay deep down and run for cover to protect their straightness? A simple matter of interests (e.g. a major interest of many men is sports, which is of next to zero interest to me). (Oh, yes: they are also very sexually interested in women, but this interest is one I don't share. :lol:slight_smile:
     
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    I hang out with guys mostly. I do have a few friends that are girls
     
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    I don't have a lot of friends right now and most of them are girls but I happen to feel way more comfortable hanging out with guys.
     
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    Guys mostly. When I was in university it was probably roughly even.
     
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    Equally, I'd say, maybe a little more with guys. My two best friends, the ones with whom I can discuss personal stuff, are a girl and a guy.
     
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    I'd say most of my close friends later on in life are female. I feel much more comfortable with a group of ladies then I do with guys. I still have my guy friends from high school but most friends I meet later on in life and connect with are female.
     
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    A lot of my friends are girls...but not cause I like dudes haha. All the guys at my school are either total jocks or total nerds and I don't fall into either category. I have friends who are guys for sure, but a lot of my friends are girls.
     
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    Most of my friends are girls. When they talk about how attractive and whatnot guys are, I feel pretty uncomfortable. I don't even have too much in common with straight girls. Then again, I don't really have a lot of friends at all.

    But I dunno. I feel more comfortable around girls than guys. I find when I'm alone with guys who might be guy friends, there's always that sort of that weird sexual tension on their side and it gives me the creeps like 90% of the time.
     
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    I love, love, LOVE hanging out with girls. I always felt I could open up more to them in general. I feel I could relate to them on a more emotional level and I feel more comfortable expressing myself around them. I can't say for certain if they would say the same for me, though, me being of male sex.

    I like to hang out with guys too, preferably my closer friends. I really suck when it comes to friendly smack-talk, though. And whenever it comes to talking about women or sex, I'm a stick in the mud and I usually don't contribute much at all.
     
  15. XenaxGabby

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    Throughout my life I've had a mix of girl and guy friends. Now I mostly have friends that are girls and one guy friend. I'm comfortable with either gender though.
     
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    For as long as I can remember all my best friends have all been girls. I have friends that are guys, but i'm never as close to them as I am with my friends that are girls.
     
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    Men. Most of my friends throughout my life have been male.
     
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    Most of my friends are straight guys.. I'm only out to a few people, most of them don't know.