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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by LD579, Nov 30, 2014.

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  1. pinkpanther

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    This is why I'm not studying.

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    I wonder what today will bring
     
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    Dancing is really fun.

    I know some people are hung up on others judging them, but there are three benefits to dancing:

    The first is, obviously, activity. It's like a mini-work out. The second is, a lot of the time, so many people won't dance, due to shame or being nervous, but if you just get up and dance, it won't matter how bad you are, because you're the only option. It also makes you look sexier.

    And finally, it's therapeutic. Some motions are allowing you to let go of all sorts of energy, and if it's positive, you can give that to somebody else. But if it's negative energy, well, just expending it on something productive, like dancing, is free fuel.

    But I have a long way to go until I reach the Michael Jackson status. I'm more like Usher, right now, LOL. Okay, that's being generous.
     
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    Hi guys,

    I'm new to this forum...I'm not sure if this is the correct place to bring up this topic, but i need some serious advice from others who are or once were in my shoes.

    I met a girl from a dating app last summer and i was well aware that she was kind of testing the waters with me, but we both went along with it anyways. Obviously we started to hit it off, and fall in love and decided to become a couple.

    We dated for 7.5 months, with one brief break up a few months in and now she has broken up with me for good, saying that she doesn't want this anymore and doesnt think this is for her. She said she honestly thinks i am her last lesbian relationship and she wants to take this time to do some soul searching (and thinks i should be doing the same) and she wants to date men.

    However she says she will always care about me and hold a place in her heart for me. She said just because 2 people love and care about each other, it doesnt mean they should stay together.

    Any advice? I mean, i know i dont have a choice and i cant force her to stay with me, especially if she wants to be with men. I'm trying to do the "no contact" thing right now, but is there anyway she might ever change her mind, have a change of heart?...do you think she might ever re-consider what we had and ever want to be with me again?


    Please help if you can.
    Thank you!
     
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    ^^Hi Nobility!

    You should create a new thread for your post in the category "Friends, Family, and Relationships". You will get more responses specific to your question this way. :slight_smile:
     
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    thank you, will do!
     
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    And the awkward moment where a family friend brings up that she wants to see Magic Mike 2, meanwhile the few of my male relatives here are semi-jokingly expressing their huge disinterest in seeing a movie like that, and I'm just sitting here saying nothing... .-.
     
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    I ended a friendship last night. I should have ended it a long time ago. It had become toxic, and he continually accused me of doing things that I did not do. I blocked him on facebook, and I blocked his number in my phone.
     
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    Ah man, it's horrible when you have to do that... but sometimes it has to be done, to preserve your sanity. Some friendships/relationships become so toxic, that staying in them isn't fair to either party. The only solution is to cut ties.

    It's still a loss though. It's tough.
     
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    We can go see Magic Mike 2, together, and throw popcorn at movie-goers. I'll even get you ice cream on the way there, LOL.
     
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    I want to believe him.
     
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    I do want to go see it, so that sounds like a plan. :icon_redf

    I'm glad you said throw popcorn though, because I'd have to throw you if you tried doing that with my nachos and gummy bears. :icon_mad:
     
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    Anybody who wastes gummy bears deserves death... or to lick the sticky resin of leftover movie-goer gunk from off the floor.
     
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    Just went out for a random walk of about an hour. Was good to have some time off of everything, and just walk and think :slight_smile:
     
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    I hate those applications that make me feel like I'm making an autobiography template.
     
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    Sick, hungry, dysphoric and sore. What a good day to be wide awake...and why does it feel so damn hot out right now?
     
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    Yeah, it is, but I had let this go on for far too long. So, it's a bit of a relief that I don't have to deal with his drama anymore.
     
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    Went and had lunch with the BF earlier and the waitress sits down next to him while taking our orders and of course starts subtly flirting with us. We must be back in a small town, where people don't quite recognize gay couples as couples.

    ---------- Post added 14th May 2015 at 04:12 PM ----------

    I get the feeling you and I have the same allergy to drama and bullshit.
     
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    It's raining, So I've been blasting old school death metal all day.
     
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