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how many of you prefer kisses without tongue over french kisses

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by lemons123, Nov 27, 2014.

  1. lemons123

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    i don't get it...the guys i've been with kiss like lizards - throwing their tongues in front as if they're going to eat me. I prefer gentle kisses on the lips - like...slow kisses to pass as someting sexual and not just kiss between friends/relatives - like...quick kisses on the lips you know. Like...biting his lip slowly...ok you got it.

    so what type of kisses do you guys prefer?
     
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    I like me some French if the person knows what they're doing... but I'm a sweet peck on the lips kind-of-girl. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
     
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    Well I've never kissed but I imagine I'd probably like regular kisses over French ones.
     
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    Sucking and nibbling on the upper or lower lip :slight_smile:
     
  5. Rawrzilla

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    All the kisses. You wanna peck? Fine. Lots of tongue? Fine. Sensual nibbling? Fine. Nice and slow? Fine. Kinda aggressive? Fine. Just as long as we are kissing I'll be fine with it.
     
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    I like to use tongues but there is too much. Less is more as a rule
     
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    I like a soft tongue kiss, ones where they are trying to lick your imtestines are just horrible
     
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    Never kissed, would like to avoid going too... erhm, ...French. I mean, a kiss is a show of affection, so... yeah.
     
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    omg, I laughed a good solid minute at this :lol:
     
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    I prefer very little tongue, but don't mind it. As long as they don't try to choke me with their tongue I'm happy x)
     
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    I like make outs and soft kisses I love kissing other women, I like a little tongue too :icon_redf
     
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    not a fan of the french kiss, prefer pure untamed latin pasión kiss =P
     
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    Never done it with a guy, but I'd probably want a mix of both I guess. French kissing sounds really hot though :wink:
     
  14. lemons123

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    you kind of sound like an irritated seller of iphones at wallmart on black friday :eek:

    "o so you want warranty - fine?? you want me to punch you in the face? fine"!

    Lol jk sorry :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:.

    ---------- Post added 27th Nov 2014 at 02:26 PM ----------

    then kiss him:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rf2jwgSXJVM
     
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    not a lover of all this tong wrestling i like baby kisses all over me that drives me wild ..
     
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    Tongues are wonderful if their owners know how to use them.

    Otherwise, they're slippery horror stories that would counteract the effects of all the aphrodisiacs in the world.
     
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    as with all things relating to romance and sex, it's not something everyone is good at, french kissing. I was kissed by a married woman once, and it was clear from the frenzy she was kissing me with that she wasn't fully committed to it. there was nothing tender about it, especially for a first kiss and her tongue was just all over the place. I slowed things down and it did get better, never got a chance to kiss her again after that night, oh well.
     
  18. Fallingdown7

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    French kisses are so gross
     
  19. Black Raven

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    There's a time and place for both.
    When it comes to sexual kisses, I seriously need tongue, though.
    I feel that it's a vital part of heavy making out and kissing during sex.

    Now there's one big issue... some people are just plain horrid at using their tongue for kissing.

    In my experience, especially lads (Some women as well, though) tend to go all piledriver on your mouth the second you start kissing... that's... err... I love it passionate and hot, but fuck, that's a huge turnoff.

    No, you start slow. Sweet and tender kisses, a bit of nibbling on the lip, teasing them with your tongue, but only teasing... and when you're all hot and steamy, get entangled! But fuck those who just want to stick it in and spin it around like a whirlwind, almost choking me.

    A kiss can also be something incredibly sensual and sexual.
    Don't write it off like that. I -really- suggest not dismissing it like that until you tried it. With the right person, it can be... mesmerising. My current partner, for example - I've NEVER before enjoyed kissing so much before. Regarding all things sensual and sexual, we're soulmates and a match made in heaven. I was blown away the first time we kissed, and still am whenever we do.

    Quite frankly, if you've never kissed, you have no idea if you like tongue or not. Just don't be rash and dismiss something you've never tried so easily.

    Same goes for you - You could turn out to be a huge fan of the french way if you only give it a chance. The most innocent (looking) are often the most passionate...

    This extends to you as well. Seriously.
    "French kisses are so gross"

    What kind of sentence is that?
    Could have added a small "to me" or "imho" at least. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    And as far as I know, you haven't even tried it yet.

    You're all young.


    Don't write off things you haven't experienced yet so easily.

    You might miss out on something very enjoyable. And you still have all the time in the world to find someone who's a good match in that regard.
     
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  20. Black Raven

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    Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

    Oops, I did it again.
     
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