I'd like to start a family when I grow older. I'd like 2 kids, both within 2 years of each other's age. I know from experience that it's not good to have your siblings have a big age gap. And that 3 is one too many. Both my brothers are like 10 years older than me. Things were at times pretty dysfunctional.
I won't rule it out. Ideally, sure. I'd feel comfortable, knowing I tried to instill a sense of skills, and make the world endure one less asinine person. But I can do this with adoption, which is fine. Those kids need some of the love in this world, first, I think. Well, that's what I tell myself, at least. Lol.
i maybe a little young but... yes i want to have kids. i wouldnt be able to carry because my family's genes SUCK. I'd probably adopt. I want two. Twins would be cool. (My girlfriend finds it cute how i already know i want kids... what then hell does that mean?! i mean we're only 13!!)
I've thought about it, not sure yet. If I do have kids, I would like to adopt. It's something I'll keep in mind
As a kid I was SO NOT into playing "mums" the way my sister was at that age. All my old dolls stayed in their drawer not to be played with, but my sister 4 years later was incredibly into into it (until she was 10 years old). However, I think things have changed. I would like to have 3 or 4 kids when I grow up - 2 or 3 boys and 1 or 2 girls. I want them all to learn musical instruments and play sports that aren't netball (there is a seriously bitchy netball culture where I live). When I find a partner they have to want kids too otherwise its basically not on between us. Of course, I want to be in my mid-20s before I have children because I have to be economically stable etc. (especially if I can afford to send them to my shortlisted schools). I think this is the most embarrassing thing I have ever posted...
If it is, I'm a weirdo too, don't worry. :lol: ===== In the future, definitely. I'm going to bring up the topic with whoever I'm with whenever I think I'm ready to do so. I would like to both adopt and have biological children, but adoption is something I'm certain on. There's a lot of things to take into account when it comes to having kids, I know. I want to make sure I'm financially stable, physically healthy, and emotionally ready. I want to be the best momma I can be.
I plan to have a scandalous affair with a near middle aged Puerto Rican woman named Maria sometime during the 2030s. So yes I suppose a child is possible.
This, plus the fact that I'm absolutely hopeless and I can't deal with children. Unless I find the love of my life and she's willing to help me raise a child. Then I'm fine. Also - adoption is a must for me. I am never, never, EVER getting pregnant. Nope. No thank you. I'd rather adopt a homeless, loveless precious little baby and make it happy as fuck. Childbirth is NOT for me.
Right now I can't ever see myself with kids, but I have thought about it. If I ever changed my mind, I would definitely want to adopt. There are enough kids in the world already, and so many of them don't have parents, it seems silly to bring more into the world just because we want to have children that are biologically related to me and/or my partner. And I am not going through childbirth. No way.
I've thought about it a lot and have changed my mind a few times, but now I'm at a place where I know definitively that I don't want kids.
