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Let's Talk Kink!

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by The Virgo, Nov 11, 2014.

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    I'm very submissive, I like a collar and to be dominated if that counts (and a lot of bdsm in general.)

    Really don't like being teased though
     
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    Since starting that masochism thread a while back, I figured out that I really like getting spanked. Just thinking about it gives me a tingly feeling. So I guess I understand better now what everyone was talking about.
     
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    If you PM me I can share a site with you where you will find like minded people. They also have meet ups and Munch info there.... :thumbsup:
     
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    I have seen a few documentaries about BDSM and also the movie, Secretary. I find it very fascinating.
     
  5. There's only one thing I won't try-
    poop stuff.

    Everything else is fair game.
     
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    I'm into feet. But I do find that the hornie I get, the kinkier I tend to get.
     
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    i reckon it all depends on what you call "kink" i know in some hetro relationships, i have no experience with MSM or other non hetro sex, anything other than "missionary" sex is "kinky".
     
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    I'll be the first to say I'm not really a saint :wink:

    I am kinky as all hell :wink:
     
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    Collar, leash...I kinda want to do the dog boy thingy.
     
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    I love to be submissive; handcuffed, blindfolded, choked lightly, being smacked... Is it getting hot in here, or is it me? :wink:
     
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    Ive always said im up for anything new really, love trying new things!

    as with everyone there are some boundaries, these are specific though and luckily bf respects those. couldn't deal with being made to feel uncomfortable :/

    recently been trying some interesting stuff to spice it up. currently undecided on this, more testing is needed I suppose lol. (!)
    Anyone found that its easier to try new stuff on 1 night stands? I know a couple people who are scared to even suggest some of their imagined scenarios with partners lol.

    Theres always someone stranger than you!:smilewave
     
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    Would you date someone that likes the kinky side?

    Yes, definitely. The more kinky they are the better.

    Do you like the kinky side?

    I do, a lot. Domination is a huge turn on of mine since I am really submissive. Spanking, choking, bondage etc.

    Do you want to try it?

    I'm just waiting for someone to find me to be honest, as soon as I get a willing and safe partner I'd be up for all the kinky stuff... Preferably someone older as well :icon_redf
     
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    I'd be down for at least trying pretty much anything, unless it involved a risk of actual harm
     
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    Same here with feet and kinky, I can go for weeks or months with the fetish only being mild but then comes a phase when I am really horny about it and the very kinky thoughts happen.
     
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    I haven't had sex before but I LOVE the idea of kinkiness, I don't think its weird at all to be into that sort of stuff
     
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    So it turns out my girlfriend is a sub.

    ...

    :grin:
     
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    Although generally a shy kinda guy and fairly inexperienced sexually, I definitely have a kinky, wild side in me. Although not generally attracted to guys in a physical sense, I have this weird fantasy of being dominated and seduced by a much older guy.. All this whilst role playing a father/son scenario.. Also have a proper exhibitionist streak. Yeah, kink rules.
     
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    My girlfriend is into enema play. No, not when poop is involved. But when everything is clean and it makes my belly bloat. We've never tried it, and honestly, I'm very nervous. But I told her in the beginning that I'll let her try anything except fisting and blood play. I'm a very open-minded sub.
     
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    Being a very open minded sub is the best way to be. I've always felt that if I was to ever sub, I'd firstly be sure to make sure it's with a guy a trust, so that I'll then be totally comfortable with letting him do whatever he likes to me. The kinkier, the better. Knowing I was providing him with maximum pleasure would be the ultimate turn on.
     
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    Much into kink. Like, s/d stuff. I'm technically a switch, though more experienced at subbing cos my partner has (understandable in context) trust issues.