To all my bi brothas and sistas!

usually, im 50/50. some days im like 75 gay/ 25 straight or vice versa. it just depends on the day

 

YES OMG sometimes I feel like so gay lol and other days I feel like bi or interested in girls. It's weird...

 

Yeah, for me it's a light switch that has a third gray option. I've been on girls for a while, but there are boys I know I can be attracted to as well. Sometimes it can be really fucking confusing. But, y'know, such is life.

 

Almost every day of the week It's pretty annoying but it's kinda one of those things about being bisexual I guess? There's so much change happening it's hilarious and frustrating at times.

 

all the time, i grew up mostly attracted to girls but the older i got the more i noticed my attraction for guys. id go through periods where id swing one way the other. always mostly still been into girls. i thought i was only sexually attracted to guys till i met my best friend 10 years ago and emotionally fell in love with him, some days it still tears my heart in two because he is straight and now married. i still love being his bestfriend and was his best man, ive never had the courage to come out to him much less to tell him i love him. since then my attraction to guys has been more. so everyday itll swing back and forth and it is frustrating.

 

I've been going back and forth as long as I can remember. One day I'll tell myself "Yup. You're gay." And it's cool, you know? I accept it (at that moment, at least). Then I'll wake up and switch to bisexual and say "That girl is pretty, I want to talk to her but I don't want to creep her out..."

So, all I'm thinking about is the sexual aspect of guys. I'll stare at a guy because he looks like the guys in the porn that I watch.

When it comes to girls, my jaws don't drop when I see them running in bikinis. They get my attention, but what really get's my interested in them is their personality. There are only certain girls that I find extremely cute, and I have urges to ask them out but I basically back off cause I'm too shy.

So, for guys, it's sexual attraction. For girls, it's the emotional/romantic attraction.

I think in the long run, abstract attraction is more of a worthy investment.