Yeah I've denied being gay more times than I've had hot dinners, but to be fair, I was in complete denial until 10 months ago. And now I'm stuck in the in-between stage between being fully closeted and fully out, but I don't feel like I have to deny my sexuality at all costs anymore.
Yes. But I was bicurious only deep In the closet. Last year, lots of my friends asked me wether I was straight and I said yea. Now that I look back on it, I should've just came out then. There was this one girl that had feelings for me at the time.
Throughout all of high school, either because I was in denial myself, or because I didn't want to admit to being more than "bi-curious - if anything!" despite having lots of gay friends, accepting friends, and a wonderful support system if I had come out then. Once I joined up and moved out, I've been out to everybody here, but only my siblings and maybe four friends back home know. I still lie every time I call up my parents or grandparents when they talk about me getting married some day or ask about any cute guys in my company. So far as this girl goes... be her friend, flirt if you like. SHe may react, she may not. At this point, it seems like she's either in denial or just not ready to come out, if she is/realizes she's gay at all. It may never go anywhere, and if you're okay with that, stay friends. But don't expect her to one day soon come up to you and declare ardor from the rooftops.
I never really denied it per say. I more questioned why I accepted it so easily. Does that make any sense? But yeah, ever since I was like 12 I knew I had some sort of interest in both genders. Just like my orientation says on my profile "as long as it's human." Well except for that one time when I..... (Kidding! Just kidding) :eusa_danc
I 'am right with you. I have lied so many times about being straight when I'm not, even to friends that are gay, because I didn't want to admit it to myself. The thought that I might be bisexual and that my family might find out truly terrified the hell out of me and made my blood run cold. Now as time goes on I find myself growing apathetic to the whole thing. If they find out, they find out no big deal.
When people get suspicious they always ask if I like women. I always say yes. but they never ask if I like men, or any other genders so its not like I am denying it, they just don't ask the right questions. Now if My parents asked me what my orientation is, I would explain, but they never do. Only share the information they asked for, Its a trick I picked up from a Vulcan. lol
I've never denied it but I've also never confirmed it. I've had people ask my friends if I was gay in front of me and they've denied it and I just kept quiet. As well as that, my grandmother would tell people that I don't like guys and I never denied or confirmed it either.
