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Is this a sign of being gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Eric Dave, Oct 17, 2014.

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  1. bitchstewie

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    Have you tried meditation and yoga etc?? You need to chill out.
     
    #41 bitchstewie, Oct 28, 2014
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    No. It happened again just now. I saw a guys face on facebook and felt this feeling in ym groin and now my anxiety is peaking again.

    I have to be gay :frowning2:
     
    #42 Eric Dave, Oct 28, 2014
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    Where are you from Eric? Is it a homophobic country?
     
    #43 bitchstewie, Oct 28, 2014
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    It's admirable you get even semi hard with a girl considering all the stress you're under. Idk Eric, maybe try to google for "fear and arousal"... I'm sorry I can't help more. (*hug*)
     
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    No its not a homophobic country but I dont know any gay people personally.

    I get a sudden jolt of shock/arousal when I see a guy especially if I wasnt expecting it.

    If It is arousal I must be gay right?
     
    #45 Eric Dave, Oct 28, 2014
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    That's what I thought too. I've been bouncing back between straight/gay/bi, but I feels as if I can't be identified as gay, or else girls wouldn't arouse me at all (and I'm talking about in real life here).

    I've had toughts about doing sexual things with older me (40+) since I was 10, yet I don't seem to get an emotional attachment to them, no matter how long I hang out with them. Doesn't seem like I'm 100% gay, does it?

    Do you ever question why are you aroused by men? I've questioned this too, and I honestly don't know. I'm so fucking confused. When I was little, and even now, I never had a feeling where I was attracted to guy to the point where I want to be in a relationship with him. Even if society labeled it as wrong, I would still be fully aware of these feelings, and then try to surprise them.

    Does it start with sexual arousal, and then emotional? Or is it the other way around...
     
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