I have most recently identified as pansexual, but thinking about it and experimenting with attractions I realized that I don't really have a sexual desire for people of my same sex, but I definitely do with the opposite sex. I have had crushes on girls (and people with any sexual identity) before and I feel urges to kiss, cuddle with, or be romantic with them; but I am almost 100% sure I don't want to go further. I haven't been sexual (besides kissing) with either sex before, but I have kissed both and had urges to do so again. I'm not really sure what this means, or if I should act on romantic urges alone with the same sex, because they may be offended if I don't want to go further (if they prefer the same sex) or may be weirded out if I just want to act romantically (if they prefer the opposite sex). Any suggestions about what is happening?
Labels are bad. Why label yourself? Anyway, to go technical: Biromantic/Panromantic, Heterosexual. In a nutshell, you have romantic desires for both sexes but only have sexual ones for the opposite sex.
You have to accept them.I know it's hard, but that's the way it is. On the other side you have a very big dating pool. :icon_bigg
