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To all the gays

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by ellyy, Jul 30, 2014.

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  1. ellyy

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    If you think of having sex with the opposite sex, what thoughts and feelings evoke?
     
    #1 ellyy, Jul 30, 2014
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    none of pleasure.
     
    #2 flyinhernikes, Jul 30, 2014
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    Pain and boredom.
     
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    Boredom.
     
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    This is gonna be a chore better fake the hell out of this
     
    #5 stocking, Jul 30, 2014
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    Not interested.
     
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    It'd feel wrong, like being smothered...honestly, I'd probably swim into a deep depression.
     
    #7 idream, Jul 30, 2014
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    Seriously, excitement. I'd love to have sex with a woman. Something about heterosexual sex is really attractive - but I wouldn't be able to sustain a relationship on that alone. I don't find women cute.
     
    #8 YaraNunchuck, Jul 30, 2014
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    Discomfort...

    It's interesting you put it that way, when I made out with my ex bf I'd often feel that way, but I had attributed it to some weird expression of claustrophobia.
     
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    I used to think like this all the time with my ex-husband. It just felt wrong. Now when I think about sex with opposite sex the only thing I can think of is I will never have to do that again! (!)
     
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    I mean, i'd rather be with a guy but it's good to experience both right?
     
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    Uncomfortable, weird
     
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    Lol me too now it's like no thank you:grin:
     
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    Curiosity and disgust sometimes. It depends on how much of a gay mood I have.
     
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    it just feels wrong ...
     
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    It would feel like deception. Like misleading them. It will never turn out right at all without honesty
     
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    When I've had fantasies involving the opposite sex, they were more along the lines of, "This is... okay..."
     
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    I don't think I was clear enough, but I meant fantasies not actually having sex in real life.
     
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    I just don't think about it any more.
     
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    Right now, and for the past few months, I can't get into the idea. But considering my previous attraction to women, I can't accept that my desire for them will *never* return. I suspect that what has happened, is that the 'side' of my nature that likes guys, has come up and demands full expression, having been suppressed for so long. But even at the beginning of this year, if i thought of sex with a woman I was attracted to, well I would feel arousal, yes. Just right now, nothing seems to happen. So to answer the question, well if I think about it now, I feel a kind of numb, vacant feeling.
     
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