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do you think gay men will date transmen?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bluerain, Jul 29, 2014.

  1. stocking

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    I can tell by that you really really like your sex :slight_smile: Why do you call yourself a slut ?
     
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    Sure. I know a lesbian who is married, and her partner came out as a transman during their marriage. They are now "straight married." And apparently, it works.

    So if that can happen, I feel like the reverse can happen.
     
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    There are some guys that will and there are some that will not. It really depends on the person.
     
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    I've been known to go on "thrill rides" where I have had way more sexual partners in a weekend than I really care to admit. My last thrill ride was 5 and no that's not even close to being a max. I always play safe and after...yea well into the triple digits.. partners I am still clean, but usually hate myself after those weekends.
     
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    I'm not sure I qualify as a gay guy anymore, what with being agender and all, but I'd be perfectly willing to date a trans man.
     
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    This question has been asked plenty of times before, and a good portion of the gay men on EC said they were willing to at least give it a try, if not attracted to trans men in general. I'm not a "gay man" per se, but close enough, and say sure.

    One of my trans guy friends offline was saying how he's had more luck with daddy/bear/leather type gay men, and that the cute twinks he's into so much are a lot more bitchy and rude with their rejections. That's a major source of his depression and suicidal thinking, since it's a reminder of what he doesn't and can never have.

    Anyway, for some guys, anatomy is everything, and they won't accept you even after seeing the results of what surgical options exist. For others, if you sound, look like, and behave like a man "should", they'll be all over you. So it depends. Right now, I'm trying to figure out just how much is learned versus hardwired.
     
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    Let me check if I could be sexually compatible with a transman.
    *checks transman porn*
    *BONER ALERT*
    Yup, I could date a transman. They are still a man though even they are born with a vagina. And as a gay guy I'm attracted to guys so, yeah. But does that make me not gay? Of course I'm still gay. It's just dating a transman(sex included) is not one of my dating priorities cause I know I will never be satisfied but for a short term maybe I would.
     
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    I would but I am more masculine and I don't think a FtM would like being feminine.. Idk though...
     
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    I have definitely found trans men attractive in the past, and I'm sure I will in the future. I have found they tend to have healthy masculinities.

    If they want to penetrate me from time to time, we're all green light.

    I am confused. My brain just had a core dump.
     
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    Not 'only gay' if that matters but it would not be a problem.
     
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    I would.
    I think trans guys are cute.