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I came out to my estranged dad today

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Richie., Jul 5, 2014.

  1. greatwhale

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    For many fathers, there is a patient wait for redemption form estranged sons. It borders on mythical. This and many other things is the payoff for living with integrity, you faced that gulf between you, and both of you have won.

    This is what happens when you have found your courage!

    Congratulations! Well done!!
     
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    Congratulations!! Hope things go well at the meeting (*hug*)
     
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    hugs returned thanks x

    Glad he saw the true you before he died!! Thanks biotech!!
    aww thanks Damien, very beautiful words from you!! X

    Awww, GW beautiful words as always!! Thanks x

    thanks very much!!! Hugs!!!

    So much love.

    Have a great day everyone

    Peace and love !(&&&)
     
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    I am so happy for you. Thank you for posting - the positive stories really give me hope in humanity. I'm about to send a similar email to my dad.
     
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    Thank you it's been a pleasure And I really hope it all goes we'll for you. So brave!!!!!
     
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    Only read this now, but I'm happy it went so well!
    Seems like this might even bring the two of you closer together - About time I'd say! :slight_smile:
     
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    I know I already said it Saturday...but great job, Richie. Very proud of you! Good luck with sis.

    "Uncle George"
     
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    Richie, I know we've gotten side-tracked a bit since Saturday's celebration about your dad, but don't put off arranging a time for both of you to finally meet. Juggling work and kids and the day-to-day responsibilities of living are an easy excuse to let it fall by the wayside. Stay focused on the follow through and it could reap some dividends with your mom and sister as well. So proud of my brother! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations :eusa_danc