Lesbians: Would you date a bi who only likes two-way with guys?

No, no, and nope.

 

No way. Sex is give and take. Pillow princesses can go home.

 

Nope.

 

Well, sometimes pillow queens aren't that bad, speaking as a stone butch (without the butch part lol). But I would still feel insecure if I felt that a man could offer something I couldn't.

 

I don't like the idea of going down on someone (virgin), but if I want to make them happy and I care about them that deeply I want to see them happy. If that makes them happy then I will do it.

 

Hell No , Next ! :tantrum:
How come she can go down on guys and not me or other women and men's junk can smell and taste bad too you know I heard it from my straight female friends

So I'm the only one doing all the work in the bedroom and she isn't putting in any effort but she'll put in effort when she's with guys no thank you :dry: their are other bisexual women that will give their lesbian lovers pleasure .
I can get it if it's her first time and she's not comfortable but not to return the favor at all . No this can't work I want some one to go down on me too.
I do not like pillow princesses:tantrum:

 

haha I like this post...

 

Either you need to figure out WHY she isn't willing or interested in reciprocating and THEN make your decision... or, if oral sex reciprocation is important enough to you, make your decision based on that alone.

If she's simply holding out because she wants to and likes being in control, then you deserve someone better.

If she's simply just NOT into women's privates (and you know, it happens; it's not that different from gay guys saying that they aren't into anal sex or something similar), then that's just going to factor into things and you may still choose to find someone else who is more sexually compatible with you.

(Additionally... a man's privates properly CLEANED is NOT the same as a woman's privates... cleaned or not. Women get wet - sometimes copiously so - as part of the natural arousal process to prepare the body for penetration... and for men - even if they have precum - it's not the same. It is NOT the same experience at all and this is just a simple matter of biology.

Related to this - and I hate to break it to you - but if she's bisexual and she's unwilling to reciprocate sex, it's entirely possible that she has a stronger preference towards men in terms of -sexual- interest/arousal/desire/orientation.)

 

Yeah, see, I would date a bisexual, but I prefer for them to either be 50/50 or have a much stronger attraction to women. I don't really like feeling that a man is 'better' than me, and that's what she seems to be implying

 

No, I would end the relationship.

 

So she does it to guys though?

No, I don't think so. Wouldn't want that because it tells me that she really hasn't accepted herself yet and has a lot of internalized homophobia. I'm sorry. I don't understand how a bisexual wouldn't go down on women unless she secretly was too scared to take women seriously BUT instead takes men seriously.

 

I agree with this I wouldn't put up with it it's an insult to me as a lesbian you can be serious with a guy and not me what am I your play thing that's how I see it .
I get some people don't want to do somethings in bed but this is selfish and someone that thinks lesbian sex is less than heterosexual sex , I wouldn't waste my time on such a person for a relationship . I would be highly offend if I met a woman like this .
Another thing I think this is and forgive me for saying this but she probably might not be bisexual at all she could probably be a curious straight girl and telling you she's bi to use this excuse .

---------- Post added 21st Jun 2014 at 02:05 PM ----------

Honey don't give up on love not all of us women are like that lesbian or bisexual , she's just not right for you hun (*hug*)

 

Damn. Friggin pillow queens. I'm sorry ( You deserve to be with someone who enjoys sex with you as much as you do her~ I hope you get through all this.

 

I'm a bisexual (more like biromantic) who has just a teeny tiny bit more emotional feelings than for girls - But of course, when I get to know a woman and have that bond, I fall in love just as hard! I have no problem with getting sexual with a woman, in fact, that's the gender most of my sexual attraction is towards (I don't want to have sex with a man). I am just a bit worried about eating a girl out/getting eaten in real life because I'm scared of getting a STD - However, since I've never slept with anyone & if she's never slept with anyone else - And if my girlfriend DID, well, after we both get tested, I'd be comfortable in participating in ALL sexual things with woman. So maybe that's why she didn't want to eat you out - Of course, if she went down on a guy then there's still the same risk, so never mind about that. Honestly, I think you should ask her more about it if it's really upsetting you and if she absolutely refuses to talk about it, then maybe you should re-consider your relationship with her. I would tell a guy right up-front that he would have to be asexual in order to date me (if I break up with my current gf, but I hope that won't happen!) and she should of been upfront about her desires (or lack of desire) to do that too!! I wish you the best of luck with everything, if you need more help, let me know!

Oh, but to answer the main question, well, I'm not a lesbian, but I probably wouldn't date another bi girl who didn't want to with me, but only with guys.