Were you sexually repressed before you came out?

Not for me. My sex life hasn't changed one bit. I still only have onesomes.

 

I'm a sexually repressed closeted gay virgin. :tears:

 

Not sure. I'm not openly out to many people, but even after I started to come out to some, the number of sexual liaisons remans 0 :lol:

Gold star for honesty :lol:.

 

I feel that I was and to a degree still am. It's probably why it took me 27 years to get to this point, whenever I had thoughts of possibly being trans, or anything to that degree I instantly repressed it and thought myself wrong for even thinking that.

Gotta love growing up Catholic

 

Yes, I'd say I am sexually repressed. I'm in my mid-thirties but I've never been intimate with a woman. The sex with my boyfriend doesn't fully satisfy me, both physically and emotionally, and I'm not the one who initiate it. Since I've come out to myself and acknowledged my attraction to women last year my overall sexual desire jumped from 3 to 15 on a scale from 0 to 10. Haha. Have to mention those 15 are towards women. :icon_wink

 

Yes I repressed the sexual and emotional feelings towards people of the same sex, I cut myself off from getting close to a guy. It was destroying my soul I would up so resentful on what I am

 

not really. haven't been too sexually repressed. i feel more sexually restricted. a lot of guys have certain tastes.

 

Nope, I was having 'onesomes' long before I came out to myself.

 

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I WAS with loads of guilt. Every time I did something with a guy I felt dirty. That's what kept me in denial for thirty years.

 

Yeah, when coming out of my teens, realizing this is not a phase and having to deal with actually being something I at that time considered the lowest of the low(indoctrination) I stopped doing anything remotely sexual, no porn, no mags, (low point in life when I had but one full meal a day), no self loving for almost 3.5 months, restrain, repress, pull back was my life's mantra at that time. And it still comes back at times...

 

Uhh...well teenage years I was interested in what sex felt like, but never acted out on it. Since coming out to myself as transgender, my whole outlook of sex has changed dramatically, and now even just the thought of it gives me high anxiety. It's to the point where if I died a virgin I'd be happy with that.

Sooo I'm not really sure how to answer this....I don't think I was. :eusa_eh:

 

yeah. i rejected men and didn't want anything to do with them sexually/romantically. i didn't have a sexual awakening until i came out to myself as liking girls

 

I'd say my sexual repression is greater, seeing how my parents won't even allow me to kiss a possible boyfriend, but my sexual suppression has lessened.

 

Yes......

 

YES, and I'm still technically sexually repressed (still a virgin). Now that I'm out to myself and my sister, I'm hoping to start experimenting soon!

 

Well, I am still a virgin so I suppose so. But, obviously that's good thing knowing my age and all. I don't plan on having sex or experimenting until a little later in life (17+)

 

Actually, I'm still sexually repressed now.

 

Except for a 2 yr period after my previous same sex partner passed away, I've been sexually active since I was 15, all within a relationship though. I was told once that I was sexually repressed because I wouldn't do a threesome.