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The "do I pass" thread

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Just Jess, Apr 16, 2014.

  1. confuzzled82

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    The straighter hair in the last picture looks better, but I don't see how anyone could see anything other than a girl in those shots...
     
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    I agree with the above. I'd definitely see you as female. Your mother is only having trouble because she's known you longer as male, and thus cannot see you "with fresh eyes." She'll come around though, especially with a daughter as beautiful as you.

    My favorite picture that you attached was #4, as you did well on your hair especially.

    (You have kind eyes. I thought that may be worth mentioning.)
     
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    Your hair definitely works well for you! I think you pass fairly well, maybe not as the girliest of girls, but still as a girl :slight_smile:
     
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    You do look like a girl. You have a feminine appearance, and if I saw you in public I'd probably see you as a girl. In fact, you look like several cis girls I've met! <3 :slight_smile:
     
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    Welp, I don't think I can pass yet. What does everyone else think? Any advise on passing better? :grin:
     
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    I'm a bit curious about how people who don't know me personally think I look. I've asked my friends, but I feel like they only said I passed due to our friendship. So, what do you think? And, I don't look like my avatar naturally. I would like to thank make-up (ironically one of the things that make people see me as a female) and YouTube for tips on contouring and such. I like to think Ill look a bit like my pic without any make-up once I go on T.
     
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    Dude~ I had to check which way you were asking if you passed or not >_>
    I would/did not second guess myself when I thought "male"
     
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    Male. Young, but male. I'd pin you as ~15 or so

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    Well, you asked for it! I will be scrutinizing! haha no but really you have a pretty masculine face, a little bit long and angular.
    You pass best in picture 2 but you look younger there too. The hairstyle is very boyish. Picture 1 you'd pass better if your right foot was on the ground instead of up on the chair. Guys like to take up space, in this pic you look comfy, but taking up very little space. Your face is pretty masculine in that pic though, so is your hairstyle. Pic 3 you look quite feminine, tbh. It's the bangs that is the main point. You'll want to avoid that side-sweep. I actually like the look, but it is a bit feminine. If you like it go for it though. Also, the tank top has a lower neckline + higher armholes. If there's a lower neckline on a guy's there'd be those low, droopy awful armholes :icon_bigg add in the necklace (which is fine by itself) and, well. And again! Take up space! Spread out like you own the place lol. Have some confidence, my fine sir! Hand away from mouth, show us your handsome face :icon_wink
     
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    Actually, you have something super feminine about you. If you are really pre everything, I would say you are going to be amazing.

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    Your mother can say whatever she wants, and I think she will resist your Transition tooth and nail, but you are mot definitely a Girl. There is no doubt about that. Trust me.

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    You are very feminine. :slight_smile:
     
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    You most definitely look like a Boy! :slight_smile:
     
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    I'd certainly see you as male. Though granted, you do seem young. For some reason, you look like a real-life anime character... something about the eyes and your hair perhaps. Very fascinating...
     
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    Well, if you got a short haircut you'd definitely be androgynous. But as it is, I'd say you look more like a tomboyish female.

    Though you are making great progress, and your face looks androgynous for certain.
     
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    This exactly. Cut your hair to just like above shoulder length or shorter and bam.
     
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    You pass but do look younger. That's pretty common though, I swear I probably look like I'm twelve.
     
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    Posted some pictures of my new hoodies in my album when they get moderated. What do you guys think? :slight_smile:
     
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    With a shorter hair cut I'd say youd look like a boy now you look neutral with a big edge towards the male side
     
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    Your face is masculine, but I would probably assume you were female depending on your mannerisms and voice. I'd recommend getting a shorter haircut and maybe spiking it.
     
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    Looking good :slight_smile: Your hair is pretty awesome too :slight_smile: