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The "do I pass" thread

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Just Jess, Apr 16, 2014.

  1. Raatox

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    Oh, thank you so much (*hug*)
    that made me really happy !!!

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    thanks to you too :icon_bigg
    And yes, I'm pre-everything, still trying to figure out what to do with my life...
     
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    You look like my friends' brother Nathan. Only better/cuter and with a much nicer smile. :thumbsup:
     
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    DUDE RAATOX i'm late to reply but you're passing super well! jealousss

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    that is a Kohl's dressing room because I'm just that classy

    sometimes it sucks being FtM cause you look 14 but you're a senior in high school AM I RIGHT but anyway passing tips and stuff are very appreciated always!!

    I know I could probably do the contour thing to fix my ~youthlike visage~ but alas I have neither hand-eye coordination nor patience
     
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    Aw, thank you so much :grin: Actually, all day today I was only refered to as 'the guy' or 'he' by guests on the camping site where I work(!)

    However, I'm not the only one passing here, Birdking, you look really great!! :slight_smile: And I love your t-shirt! :slight_smile:
    As for the 'looking like 14-issue' i really get you, but I guess we're gonna be happy about it in, say 20 years or so :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    And to use make up (suppose that was what you meant by 'contour thing'?) to look male seems just wrong. at least for me, one BIG relief when I started accepting my trans-ness was to throw away my make-up as far as I could :rolle:
    But, sure, if it helps one feeling better, then it could be worth trying :slight_smile:
     
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    *whistle* Hey, I would accept a date night from this man! :thumbsup:

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    Very cute, you pass very well also. :wink:
     
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    So I recently had my hair cut, can someone look in my most recent album "I enjoy bed selfies" and let me know if I pass/if they have any hints and tips please?
     
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    hmm. I would recommend contouring your cheekbones and jawline, along with filling in your eyebrows. I've found that even just eyebrows will actually go a long way! There are some great tutorials on youtube for contouring as well.
    Would anyone be willing to look at the few pictures I've uploaded to see if I pass as male?
     
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    Sorta. Not out to a lot of people so I need to present as male a lot of the time, and I want to also be able to present as female.
     
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    I just got my hair cut, so I posted two new pictures if anyone wants to give me some tips :slight_smile:
    (Sorry they're such bad quality, my webcam sucks)
     
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    theres only a couple pics of me but yeah thoughts?
     
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    Well you're one sexy cat.
    Wait... you're not the cat? You're the human male?

    Well you look like a human male. I'd say you absolutely pass! :thumbsup:
    No really, you look like a young lad alright.
     
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    I personally think you pass alright! Are your eyebrows naturally that thin? If not, you could try to let them grow out. You look like a young guy to me, either way.



    What would you guys gender me on the street?
     
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    your hair looks great!

    you almost look like this guy i know... :lol:

    based on your avatar, i'd probably say guy!
     
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    Shit, You look like my brother!!! Scary^^ But, thus, based on profile picture: guy :slight_smile:
     
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    male! lookin good man
     
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    Eh...judging from my old album pictures, what do you guys think?
    Will be posting new ones soon.
     
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    You look defenitely male, no doubt! :slight_smile:
     
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    Does the subtle eyeliner (in the most recent picture) make it harder for me to pass? ;w;
     
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    You definitely look male to me.

    It'll probably make passing more difficult, but after being on hormones for a while, you'll be able to get away with it more. On another note, I really like the blue hair. :slight_smile:
     
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    you definitely look male, i'm jealous of how well you pass! :lol:

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    i think people see makeup and automatically something in their brain goes "girl?", so unfortunately i think it might :frowning2: but you're looking awesome dude!