Is it possible to be a hetero-romantic homosexual?

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  1. Belkeseri18

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    So when I came out of the closet, I identified as gay. Since then, I have started to have romantic feelings about a close girl friend I have at school. I still feel attracted to other men, and I don't see myself ever getting physical with a girl. Is it possible to be gay and have romantic feelings for a girl?
     
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    Do you have romantic feelings towards men? Or do you feel like you could have a relationship with a man? Can you picture cuddling, holding hands, watching movies together, etc. or is it solely physical? If you have romantic attractions to men, you are not hetero-romantic.

    It could be possible that you're bi- or pan- romantic but homosexual. If you feel strongly about this girl, by all means, explain to her how you feel and ask if she would be willing to explore a romantic relationship with you.
     
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    I have romantic feelings towards men. I haven't actually found Mr. Right yet, but I do have romantic feelings towards close guy friends. But I also have romantic feelings towards close girl friends too...no sexual attractions, just romantic feelings. What exactly would that be called?
     
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    Biromantic Homosexual.
     
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    Hey :slight_smile: I identify as bi-romantic. It's perfectly possible. I feel happy imagining hugging, holding hands, etc with friends both male and female. But I don't feel any sexual attraction towards the male friend. It's normal enough, and definitely possible. Feelings are odd things :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    It's called bi romantic .
     
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    Hey man I am also biromantic but only sexually attracted to one sex although in my case it is females. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here.