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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by laurenc, Mar 14, 2014.

  1. laurenc

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    does anyone else feel that underwer can make someone feel more at home in their own body? I feel that wearing underwear that matches someones gender identy can make them feel better and can bost their conffidence and can sometimes make dyshoria not as bad (sorry for my bad spelling and puncation)
     
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    Absolutely!

    Sometimes if I wake up and feel horrible and man-ish I put on fancier undies to make myself feel more girly :slight_smile: (I pity my poor mum...must feel a bit weird to hang lacey thongs out to dry :grin: )
     
  3. Claudette

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    completely agree! before I went full-time I was wearing female panties under my male clothes, I tried to work untucked/taped once to "give them a rest" and it was horrendous!
    Male underwear... I was freaking out, with no time to amend it, so I had to struggle the rest of the day
     
  4. laurenc

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    I bet she does lol. I have had times where panties have made me feel good and I like wearing "boys" underwear most of the time (like 90% of the time)
     
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    I have a rubber fetish so I love wearing rubber underwear! As far as I,m concerned it doesnt matter what your parents etc think, it,s what you want, and do, it your body not theirs!
     
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    I agree as well. I find that I am so, so much more comfortable in boxer briefs that I ever was in women's underwear. Even when I was still presenting somewhat feminine, I felt so much at home when I was wearing men's underwear.
     
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    I love Victoria's Secret underwear far more than any tomboy should... :lol:
     
  8. Claudette

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    I am very fond of matching sets lol
     
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    i have to agree 100%.
     
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    Wish I had matching sets :'(

    Stupid giant rib-cage. I can't find anything pretty!:tears::tears::tears:
     
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    I can certainly understand your feelings in this matter. Wearing what makes u feel better about yourself is always going to help! I do wonder how long that will last before one needs to move on to other things myself, always wanted to present as a woman, and wearing a bra ever sunset I was young was extremely important. However since having breast augmentation and now having to wear one. I wonder if that feeling will change over time
     
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    Τhis.
     
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    I only have a few thongs, which are all the same. (Came in a pack of 3.)
    So can't really confirm nor deny this yet.
     
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    So there IS another person in the whole of the world who wears thongs. I knew it couldn't be just me...
     
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    Of course. :slight_smile:
    Though they can be pretty uncomfortable when you can't tuck! :frowning2:
     
  16. laurenc

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    thongs are not my thing but its good that they make others happy
     
  17. drwinchester

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    Yeah. Have to agree. I wear boxers and it's the one male thing I can wear no matter how I'm presenting. So it's like a reminder that somewhere, I'm always wearing something gender affirming.