Just wondering…

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by indecisionmaking, Mar 8, 2014.

  1. Okay, so I'm only interested in girls. I've never really liked boys, and I identify as lesbian. But I only really like girls once I've gotten to know them. Like, I only really feel attracted to someone if I like their personality.
    For example, I was indifferent to this one person until I got to know her. I liked that she was quietly confident, and a bit quirky. And after that, she just seemed really beautiful. It was like her personality changed the way I saw her appearance.

    I was wondering if anyone else is like this, or if there's a word for it?
     
  2. Au.Quicksilver

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    You're like me then. Homo-demisexual.
    Changes what alters what when liking someone.
     
  3. I didn't even know that was a term

    But if so, then I am homo-demisexual. I think for other people though it would be easier to just keep it simple. But thanks :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey I am a bit like this. It's probably more common than you think.
     
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    the term I supposed is human who looked beyond a person's appearance :slight_smile: