Did you question your orientation first?

I've never questioned my sexuality, though it has changed a bit. After I realised I was male, a few months later I was watching X-Files again, and I realised that I was drawn to Dana Scully. So I've always had an attraction to guys, but she was the first girl I was drawn to. And then as time wore on, I came upon some more girls that I also felt were my exceptions.

So I went from straight (when I thought I was a girl) to gay, and now I consider myself gay with some exceptions (or another way of saying it: gay, but a little bi).And I wouldn't rule out having some pan in me, cause I think I could probably get with someone whose gender is off the binary, but either way, I have an overall more of an attachment to guys. Though I do also love my few current girl exceptions too.

 

Sexuality first. I knew I liked girls since primary school so I assumed I was a lesbian but when I decided it was time to face up to it I started questioning my gender because I didn't feel right as a woman that was attracted to women. That was when I realised I was trans. In the process I have questioned my orientation and thought for a while I may be bisexual but leaning towards girls. I don't see myself in a relationship or even sexually with a guy though so at the moment I identify as a straight trans man (with the occasional man crush lol)

 

I've always known I'm a dude. When I was 16, I realised I'm gynesexual.

 

Ditto everything here, except it was making out so there wasn't really a "submissive" one or a "dominant" one.

 

For me, not really, I just kind of realized that I had a crush on this girl and I then did some thinking and was like " omg im a lesbian

 

Well no because I had crushes on girls, I started to question my orientation when I learned girls' sex drives are way higher than I expected and I was not interested in it, also hated being expected to "wear the pants" in the relationship, do relationships without pants exist? or shared pants? Not very good input sorry, I don't know my gender or orientation yet.

 

I questioned my sexuality first, considering the fact I grew up a total girly girl till the day I realized I never was happy nor confident, I never imagined I would turn out trans* but after coming out as pan I started to notice how much I wanted my chest to shrink my shoulders to broaden, my legs to lengthen and one day I stopped identifying as cis. My name turned into a bullet, my pronouns a mask, my body a costume, and my mind turned into a river.

 

No, I identified as female since my earliest memory, like 4 or so. I liked boys around the same time I guess, but never gave it much thought until a little later. Then at 11 I became boy crazy.

 

I never questioned my sexuality, I let it develop and didn't really care about it at all. But yeah, I was aware of my sexuality and attributed a label to it and whatnot, before I even considered my gender identity. I'm struggling a lot with my gender identity, whereas I didn't struggle or care at all about my sexuality, whatever it was, I accepted it. So it's pretty weird, it's hard for me to struggle to understand or accept something, when I'm used to not feeling that way.

 

I did question my orientation first, then my gender identity, then my orientation again. But my gender identity has little to do with my orientation.