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Do you get nervous or turned on when someone flirts or is seductive with you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Rosepetal, Feb 20, 2014.

  1. awesomeness

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    I love it when a guy flirts with me. It's a bit awkward when straight guys get jokingly flirty though. But if it's a gay/bi guy, then I love it
     
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    For me, it's just amusing. I've never been seriously flirted with to my knowledge. And I've never seriously flirted with either of the 2 people I've liked
     
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    huh ,omg that izaya guy is sexy lol i love ur avatar
     
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    He does look like evil incarnate AKA good looking. I like psychopathic characters. Anime portrays them so well
     
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    It depends. When a guy is flirting with me, especially if I'm not really that close to the person, I'd get nervous and feel awkward. In my head I'll be like "stop, just stop, please" lol.
    If it's a girl, especially if I like the girl, I'd get a bit nervous and turn on at the same time.
     
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    It happens so rarely that when it does, I freak out a little bit inside and don't flirt back... :O
     
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    Yes it makes me nervous because I'm shy. And depends on who it is. If it's someone I'm attracted to, it's always exciting hehe. I wish I was good at flirting.
     
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    If a guy is flirting with me and I like him, I get both anxious and excited. If a guy I don't find attractive is flirting with me, I get really annoyed rather than nervous.
     
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    They want to bump uglies. Stop beating around the bush and get to the point already.
     
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    I agree i think ia total turnon. if ure gunna put urself put there then don't get mad if u get hit pn :slight_smile:
     
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    Definitely nervous. The immediate thought that runs through my head is 'what if they try to rape me?'
     
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    It depends, if a guy hits on me I don't get nervous or turned on and I immediately turn them down. I never get turned on by flirting, but I do like flirting.. subtle flirting. I hate it when their too forward, I went to meet up with a friend one day and she had two friends with her who were very forward with me and started talking about doing sexual things with me, which was a total turn off for me especially since I just met them. I wouldn't mind if it was someone I was with though :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm kinda oblivious when it comes to flirting, so if someone has i haven't noticed. Which probably made it awkward for them.
    But i can't help it if i'm to dumb to notice this stuff.
     
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    Um, I'm not really sure because I don't think I ever get flirted with (or I'm just oblivious to it when I am). I do remember when one of my friends had a crush on me and she would awkwardly kind of flirt with me, but I was just uncomfortable because, well, she was the wrong biological sex xD
     
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    I get really uncomfortable if I know someone's flirting with me. Most of the time I'm too dense to pick up on it. But when I do, I try to brush it off by accepting whatever they say (typically something about my body) and not encouraging the situation by flirting back. It's mostly my female friends who do this, and I'm pretty sure they do it because they know it makes me uncomfortable.
     
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    If it's a girl I feel a mixture of frustration and pity. I want to tell the girl "I AM GAY" but I can't do that as I'm not ready to come out of the closet. So I usually pretend to be oblivious or act somewhat coldly (not mean, just not overly enthusiastic and nice) around the girl so that they lose interest or go away. It is very annoying if some of my guy friends are like "Oh she's hot, you should date her!" and I have to BS some excuse to why I don't want to be in a relationship.

    What is really awkward is when straight guys pretend to act gay when they are just joking around. I never know how to respond to that. I don't know how long I am supposed to play along before they revert to straight mode and are like "Woaaah, I think thats enough". So if I'm around straight guys pretending to gay flirt I usually just ignore or get away with them.
     
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    I don't know...maybe nervous? I don't like girls who take the initiative :confused:
     
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    I get nervous and awkward lol. I never know what to do in those situations
     
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    bahhaa same here
     
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    Girls don't really flirt with me, but guys have, and I can take a compliment, but I still feel uncomfortable.