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Honesty

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ZenMusic, Feb 6, 2014.

  1. ZenMusic

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    Has a Straight Woman ever come on to you? ( Gay Men).
     
  2. SongshiQuan

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    Yup. Politely declined though.
     
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    I have came on to a gay guy before, he politely told me he was gay and i was ok with it
     
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    From time to time they have. My best friend Lisa has a crush on me also, but she knows nothing will ever come of it and doesn't push for anything.
     
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    Yes. Not often. I tend to attract only the stone butches. However, my one gf was super femme.
     
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    Quite a few over the years, but I declined anyway, before accepting I'm gay...weird huh?
     
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    Yeah--I was actually sort of a ladies man in college.:lol: Seems weird now. I think a lot of it was that it was all about them--I really was a great boyfriend.:roflmao: Anyway, it continued well into my twenties well after coming out. I always tried to be gracious about it...
     
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    A few women showed interest during college, and I ended up married to the last one. I started college in a gay relationship, but as soon as I came out to family everything crashed emotionally and I crawled back into my closet and pretended to be straight. Now I'm peeking out the closet door, watching the world pass by, waiting for my time to come again.
     
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    Does my ex-girlfriend count?
     
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    I have a female friend who had a massive crush on me for two years straight, and some of my other female friends admitted to liking me after I came out to them. I don't think I've ever been openly or blatantly flirted with by anyone really though (unless I'm just totally oblivious, which is actuall pretty likely).
     
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    A straight woman told me that she likes me...I didn't decline but didn't accept either, maybe I should have declined and told her the truth.
     
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    Yep, I awkwardly ignored the not so subtle sexual advances...then she said in front of everyone (not in a malicious way) that she thought I was gay, because I wasn't responding to her... I then awkwardly denied that I was gay because I wa barely out when it happened.
     
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    I've seen some girls who will instantly gossip about a guy being gay if he turns them down or doesn't show interest. Often enough it's simply because the guy is shy and/or isn't sure how to respond to the situation if he isn't interested.

    I can't believe she would just put you on blast like that though, even if it wasn't in a mean-spirited way.
     
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