Just yesterday my mom was talking about Glee with me (yes, I watch glee, well did I was getting a recap because I haven't watched in a while anyway). My mom mentioned in her words "the black boy that dresses like a girl". I said "You know SHE [the character's name is Unique] is a girl right? She's MtF transgender. She may be biologically male, but she identifies as female so she's female." And my mom gave me a weird look and proceeded to call her "he-she". AGH! This irritated me.
My mother thought that was me. She asked me what I would do when I actually got a girl/boy when I cheated on them. I was extremely offended.
YES this so much. And I hate the idea that my set of parts are female. Umm..hello? I'm a guy, they're male, just like my legs and everything else, they're all a guy's. I know some trans peeps aren't comfortable with their lower parts, but that's just how it is for me...
Today, some girl who sits with my friends and me at lunch told us that "gay" just means "Got AIDS yet?" and then laughed. That was aggravating.
Here is one my Gran said today after she saw heard on the radio about Tom Daley coming out: "Disgusting that deviants like that get so much attention. Did I tell you that young lad down the road is a poof? I saw him and his disgusting little friend go into the house today. Makes me sick. And, did I tell you, his bloody neighbour is a thief(accused of embezzlement; not yet proven) and the other side is a thug(Recently came out of prison, she assumes violent crime for, as far as I can tell, no reason). I can't tell which is worse. Throw all three in jail so we don't have to deal with them." I can't tell whether to laugh or cry :/
There's this girl in my program who thinks she's better than everyone because she's like a quarter Greek. So the other day she was talking about Greek food and she goes, "I don't eat red meat. Only lamb and pork". She wouldn't believe anyone when they tried explaining that lamb is red meat. Not related, but it made me laugh.
Them: "You can't be Gay and Christian." Me: "Oh my, I guess I'll have to turn in my cross necklace." Them: "You can't walk even a little bit?" Me: "No, do you think I sit in this wheelchair because it's so much fun?" (I was, of course, being sarcastic.) ---------- Post added 2nd Dec 2013 at 08:45 PM ---------- I came out to one counselor and he told me "It's okay. I work with sex offenders all the time."
Oh man I hate the "no homo" shit. Like seriously, it also shows they're insecure and it's pathetic. I can't believe someone honestly said that oh my god. Wow.
Other: Hey what's your sexual orientation? Me: Gay, like really gay. Other: .... So when did you decide that?
Well I've heard a lot but something that really irritates me is when people, mostly they don't even know me, go: "oh yes but that is just a phase. I've also gone through that, being especially connected to one girl but that will go away, probably very soon" It's like the next thing is "don't you worry". Pisses me off so much. I just feel like saying: I don't have a problem with being gay. But I do have a problem with people like you thinking it's any of your business who I like. But instead I just sit there and nod and imagine what it would be like actually saying what I'm thinking. One day I will, hopefully. :/
In my math class today a two girls were talking about their who they said is an out lesbian (I didn't catch her name so I don't know if I know her or not) and this caught the attention of the two boys behind them who were trying to figure out if they knew her. One of the girls said she had a picture of her (the girl was a lesbian) on her phone and one of the boys said "Is she hot? Show me the picture, show me the picture!" The other said "Dude, you know you can't date" and the first boy said "Why not?" The second boy said "Because she's a lesbian" and the first boy said "So?" On a side note I consider walking over to the the girls and saying "Show me the picture, maybe you can't date her but I can" but I didn't want to out myself. Plus I thought that would be rude.
ARRRGH! That must be annoying! If you continue to point it out and tell her to call the character a trans woman she may do so. Cry, then laugh and tell her to keep her silly opinions to herself! LOLOL WOOW. I hate the no homo crap because, like you said it's insecure and because it's like there's something wrong with it.
Used to having awkward conversations with my mom now i have them with my brother.... Me: I identify as female, so i consider myself female. So i plan to be a transgender female. Bro: (Looks down and then looks straight at me) You gotta have a personality disorder. Me: (Sarcastically....) What ever do you mean (as i begin to roll my eye balls at him) Bro: Everyone has a male and female persona and the female is taking over your body. Me: Dick! I'm your sister mentally and biologically i'm your brother. I'm just trying to match the inside with the outside. Bro: No, you just have a personality disorder. Me: Dick! I'm studying psychology and I don't have a personality disorder. I was so offended i didn't know how to react.
