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Anxious and Insecure

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by lil boi, Oct 20, 2013.

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  1. lil boi

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    I don't really want to put out my feelings online, but I just feel helpless. :frowning2:

    Everyone I was used to talk to don't really talk to me anymore so I feel alone right now. And since I'm not in school as often as I used to, I usually just come home to an empty house with nobody but me. I'm slowly being forgotten by the people I use to know and I am less of a person than I was before. And with so much time on my hands, I feel like I'm just wasting it over these little problems. The days are getting longer yet the weeks are becoming shorter and it feels like don't have enough time to do what I should be doing before I become an adult. But people just make me mad and sad so I just want to be alone.
    I just really wish someone would talk to me right now. >_<

    Sorry if it seems like I'm ranting. It's just feels like there's no hope for me anymore.
    I also have mild anxiety and a few insecurity issues and its eating me up inside. ._.
     
    #1 lil boi, Oct 20, 2013
  2. Nick07

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    Hi,

    friendships from the school hardly survive for long after you leave the school.
    Why are you at home? Holidays? Or are you looking for a job? What about some classes (hobby, music, languages, sport)? Or volunteering? In a pet shelter for example?
     
    #2 Nick07, Oct 20, 2013
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    I don't have anything to add, but thought you might need a hug (*hug*)
    I hope you feel better soon :slight_smile:
     
    #3 Ruby Dragon, Oct 20, 2013
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    Are you making an effort to stay in touch with people too? How about organising coffee with different people at least twice a week and just to keep in touch with people?

    And the job or volunteering mentioned above is a good idea too.
     
    #4 bingostring, Oct 21, 2013
  5. lil boi

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    I'm glad someone actually replied. :slight_smile:
    I was just very upset yesterday so sorry if I seemed overwhelmed. But I am still a little anxious atm.
    I don't really want to talk about my friends though, it's for me and my friends to handle (and I might have over-exaggerated about it a bit so don't worry too much about it).

    But I still wish I had someone to talk to. Pretty much all I have been doing here on EC was creating threads that engaged people and I never really made any friends. >.<

    Anyways, thanks for the advice. ^^

    ---------- Post added 21st Oct 2013 at 11:01 PM ----------
    Thanks for the hug, VelvetBlade. (*hug*)
    I really needed it. ^-^
     
    #5 lil boi, Oct 21, 2013
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