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Who do you see yourself with when you're older?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by lil boi, Oct 18, 2013.

  1. Jackalope7

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    For me, it could either be a man or a woman. More likely to be a man though As I'm like 80% gay
     
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    Probably not with anyone, but who knows what life will bring...
     
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    Who knows...?

    I hope I'm with a wonderful guy, but if I'm not, I'm not going to let it get me down.
     
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    I hope I'm with some cute guy, who I love and can spend all my time with. Maybe in 10 years we live together at least, and I can come home. Or (and most likely) I'm single because I'm a whiny clingy neurotic mess and I'm probably single and living alone with my cat.
     
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    I honestly don't see myself with anyone, meaning, I don't consciously *plan* on being with anyone long-term, but if it happens, it happens. Sex doesn't really matter to me in the end, though at one time I was convinced I would end up with a nice Hispanic girl from "the other side". Most of my exes would fit this profile, in fact...
     
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    I will be with Mike the rest of my life. I know I was left here for him and will put a smile on his face every single day until this body breathes it's last breath! I will have no will to live if he is taken from me as I know he is the one put here for me and I will never feel this deep ov love for anybody else. June
     
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    Hmm...this is a difficult exercise. I guess ideally in ten years time I would be:

    In my dream career, as a cop, living with my boyfriend in an inner-city house or apartment. We'd be at a stage where we're discussing marriage and considering our options in terms of having kids and moving somewhere a little more family friendly.

    Quite a bit of shit to do in order for that to happen. Finish my degree, get to a point where I can manage my anxiety and find guys to date.
     
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    I see myself to be more likely with a woman rather than a man as I tend to be more heteroromantic. But I have no interest in having kids.
     
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    I think I'll be single or in short relationships fr the rest of my life.
     
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    I'd love to end up with someone like me. A random person who laughs at everything.
     
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    I guess realistically its more likely I'll end up with a women, just because there are more straight/bi women than gay/bi guys.

    More importantly, though, I hope I end up with someone who at least leans towards being genderqueer or otherwise gender variant. I'm less concerned about the biological sex and more about finding someone with a well balanced personality.
     
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    The future terrifies me. If I focus on things farther in the future than a week my brain chooses the worst case scenarios as the likely out come. I've never even been in a relationship so I don't really even know what I could have. Hopefully I will find somebody who loves me despite my many flaws and will always try and make me happy when I am sad and will always be happy to see me and... that sounds like a dog... shoot.
     
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    Probably alone. I don't mean that as a sad thing either. I've always been sort of a loner hahahah. But I'm no time traveler, if I meet someone then sure. It would be a guy though, since I am really gay hahah.
     
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    Being Bisexual, I would have to say that it depends largely on the kind of people I meet. If I fall in love with a girl, and she turns out to be the one, then hopefully I will marry her. If I fall in love with a boy, and he turns out to be the one, then hopefully I will marry him. :slight_smile:
     
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    I can see me with my actually crush... how happy it could be, her crazy (future old) thinks, the strange fights about she bugging my computer and i messing her art things, an adoptive children (probably a boy), our jobs... and i can see all this, sometimes i thought about it when i'm depressed about things... oh, and i'm a old lady with 16 years (oh, dear God)
     
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    Probably my own reflection.
     
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    I don't know what I want to do for a job yet but I see myself married or in a long term relationship with a women. And I'd like to a mother someday. To quote Ellen from the famous and groundbreaking coming out episode of her sitcom "I mean I just want what everybody wants … a house, a picket fence, a dog, a cat, Sunday barbecues. Someone to love, someone who loves me. Someone I can build a life with. I just want be happy." I love that quote because I think it sums up everything I want.
     
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    10-20 years from now. Gee lets see 57 or 67...

    I see myself with cats - lots and lots of cats....

    I would be with a man if I can find one who suits me... Rare creatures decent fellows my age are... They are already married
     
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    Probably dating and in a pretty serious relationship, and besides that no clue.
     
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    I see myself with my wife, same woman I am with today...with 2 children.

    I see myself thinner too :grin: