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Would you ever date yourself?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by lil boi, Oct 9, 2013.

  1. Miss Loopy

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    You mean, you guys aren't already in a relationship with yourselves?

    Oh, better break up with the right hand then...
     
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    I'm a fatass so no
     
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    Well, I think that I could be really good friends with myself, but as for dating, I don't think two clingy guys would make a good couple :wink:

    In all seriousness, my problem is that I get attached really easily and quite quickly at that, so I don't think I would be in a good relationship with myself.

    I dunno, thinking about the situation is kinda weird.... It makes me contemplate my relationship with Lefty and his twin Righty too much XD
     
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    At first thought, I was like "Heck Yeah!" I'm awesome! But I don't know if I would challenge me to grow as a person, or if I would stagnate in my unaddressed personal failings. So, I would have a fling with myself (if I could talk myself into it) but not a relationship beyond that. I don't know if as a friend I would get on my nerves too much to tolerate casually.
     
  5. MinusK

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    Excessively make out and have sex with? Yes.

    But date, and someday marry me? No way, I'll just be annoying.
     
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    I think it would be no on immediate response, but I think long run yes.

    Who would know me better, know what to say or how I would feel? I don't know why but I get the feeling we would be a power couple oddly enough, I go through these mood swings of very vain to down right self loathing. And I feel if I had another person around (me) I/we would probably just constantly compliment the other and try and make ourselves feel better. Since afterall I know I am not happy, but we could both help each other stay in a delusional yet happy relationship. However my own self hatred would probably seep into the relationship. So while I think we would be happy, I think it would be quite unhealthy for us both.

    If it were to end, it would probably be in a huge fight.
     
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    No, I can't stand my own personality, and I'd much rather date someone that's almost the complete opposite of me, bar intelligence and kindness.
     
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    :eusa_hand I'm way out of my league.
     
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    Probably. If I did, I could always trust my partner's criticism and praises and become a better person... maybe... still, it'd be weird...
     
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    No way. I'm definitely not my type. I have some self image issues, but that isn't the reason. I like to meet interesting people and enjoy having people of different backgrounds and experiences around me. Of course with that there has to be a maturity to agree to disagree about some things. I find I'm happier with someone that has strengths where I have weaknesses and vice versa. Makes me feel stronger to take on the world. Sometimes it can be confusing because there still needs to be some level of commonality in order to find things we can both enjoy on a regular basis.
     
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    Not very likely. But I am a demiromantic, and it would make sense that one has the strongest emotional conection to themselves. So it all comes down to what side of me I show myself.
     
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    If we looked different and had different life experiences: definite yes!
    Although a me who hasn't gone through all the crap I went through would be arrogant and selfabsorbed so maybe not too different. I would date a version of me who took art in her senior years and (at least tries) to paint and draw for a living and has blue eyes ;-)
     
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    Νο. Ι wouldn't even like me if I saw me in the street, if I were in the same class with myself I'd sit as far away as possible from me and I would find me annoying and pretentious.