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Coming out date

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by doglover44, Sep 18, 2013.

  1. ArtVandelay

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    We have pretty much the same goal :thumbsup: I told myself I would tell at least one of my best friends by the end of October. I've almost done it a couple times already, but didn't follow through. Good luck! I hope we can both make it happen for ourselves.
     
  2. sparkpenguin

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    Good luck! I was scared about coming out, but I felt much better after I did it, be brave :slight_smile:
     
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    Really tough times... But I feel much better now.
     
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    Mine is on National Coming Out Day... it's so soon! I don't think I'm gonna be able to do it haha! :s
     
  6. doglover44

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    wish this wasn't so hard
     
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    Good luck... Touchwood, if anything happens you still have us. You will never feel lonely
     
  8. doglover44

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    I am glad for all my EC friends !
     
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    I came out today ! I'm sure you can do it ! Keep us posted..
     
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    I wish you nothing but the best of luck!
     
  11. doglover44

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    I will keep you guys posted I am scared and excited at the same to do it scared to do it but excited cause I wont be depressed or living a lie anymore
     
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    Soooo Nov 1st is officially when your life becomes amazing!
     
  13. doglover44

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    well mom is coming to visit in a week or 2 so I got a new plan sit my wife and mom on the couch together and tell them and come out
     
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    Good luck xxx
     
  15. doglover44

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    Id reather do it sooner and get it over with !
     
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    Oct 11 is National Coming Out Day :slight_smile:

    But any day can be coming out day, of course :slight_smile:

    *Sending much support your way* I am the most shy and awkward person and some how managed to finally be "out" to everyone as of this past February (last person on my list was my grandma and she doesn't even care--we still talk as normal). Hope that helps alleviate your nerves. And afterward, you will feel more courageous and confident knowing you had the courage to do it.

    Namaste!
     
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    Good luck! Coming out can be hard, but it's so worth it in the end. I'm planning on telling my parents soon, so I'm right there with you!
     
  18. doglover44

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    I am afraid its gonna hurt my wife more then my mom
     
  19. doglover44

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    its getting closer I dont think I can do it !