If you could, would you?

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  1. biggayguy

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    Fought too hard to reach this stage of life. No way would I trade it now! I feel like a salmon that has swam upstream my whole life just to come home where there's peace.
     
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    No. I actually don't think I would change my sexuality. I like being who I am. Besides, I realize that there are other people just like me who may need someone to lean on, and if I wasn't gay, they would be reluctant to tell me. I managed to actually save a life the first day of school when I moved freshman year. And I owe it all to being gay. My best friend would not be here if I hadn't told them that I was supportive and I understood.
     
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    No. I'm fairly content with my sexuality.
     
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    A month ago I would have said "yes, in a heartbeat".... but now I'm not sure. I don't think I would change it.:newcolor:
     
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    Nah, i suffered enough coming out and shiz, now tht im near the end of tht journey, its made me who i am. Also it does filter true friends sometimes :grin:
     
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    It would be nice to be considered "normal" and not be hated by half of the country, but at the same time there isn't anything wrong with it so why change? I also feel like I'm part of something. And if I was straight, I'd have to like girls :eek:
     
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    lol Made my night. I'm not straight and I like girls :icon_wink
     
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    Absolutely. I'm fine with my sexuality for the most part, but if I could change it, then of course.
     
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    I think it would make my life easier. I wouldn't be me, if I changed my sexuality. In fact, it scares me how potentially different I would be if I wasn't gay.
     
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    maybe I'd be bisexual or something for a wider range of dating possibilities but I never want to stop liking guys.
     
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    I don't really want to change, since this is the only life I have. If I did want to change though, I'd probably change to be pansexual.
     
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    Not long ago, before coming out to people, it would've been a yes. Nothing but yes. Funnily enough, I realised TODAY, that I don't think I would. I'm getting used to it. I'm gay, I don't have a problem, people who think it's a problem have one.

    I can't imagine just all of a sudden being turned straight. Feelings that I've never had for women would just be there. That's not how I was born, and I don't think it's something that I'd really change.
     
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    Well if I could eliminate all my 'gay' attractions/feelings, yeah I probably would...but I wouldn't want to replace them with 'straight' attractions/feelings, instead with no attractions at all (but I also consider myself to be borderline asexual as it is)
     
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    Heck no. I love being bi because I really love sweaty guys with abs it's just so sexy. But at the same time I like girls but boys are way more fun be with.
     
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    Nope. I like liking boobs. :slight_smile:
     
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    Considering "the gay side" has Elton John and George Michael, no.
     
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    :roflmao:

    But seriously, not a chance. Being gay ROCKS! If anything I wish I was MORE gay. That way I might not have spent so much time in denial and I might, today, be able to see myself with more guys (I actually think I'm a bit asexual).