Are there more bottoms than tops?

Even though I'm still (but probably not for long) a virgin, it's been obvious to me that I'm a bottom for the following reasons:

1. As opposed to other virgins in this forum, I have no sexual desire whatsoever to penetrate something. If I ever top, it'll be out of curiosity and possibly some convincing.

2. I've anally masturbated many times, and I can't tell you a time that hasn't been pleasing. Even the first time felt pretty good.

3. The fantasies I have are similar to things like this (Link isn't porn. I swear. It's Ed, Edd and Eddy on a couch watching TV and DD is sleeping). Today, I got to live out the linked fantasy several times today in DD's position. My boyfriend and I are both into yaoi, so our relationship is quite similar to what you normally see.

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Sounds like a natural bottom to me. If you exist, then the term "natural bottom" is valid.

 

i started of as a top it was alright being in control kind of liked the power I had It was a few months before I experienced being bottom with another guy boy did i like being taken . I like both so am versatile .

 

Bottom boy. I just love feeling submissive and pleasuring my man in that way. I can't ever see myself being versatile. I know I would be out of place and uncomfortable. It's weird, my mind is just set up that way.

 

I'll vote I'm a top. I feel like i could go the other way but would probably be more comfortable giving~ I'm just generous that way I suppose ^o^

 

Easier? I think the tops have it easier! All he has to do is put it in.... I have to spend 45 min prepping, bend into a pretzel at times, keep a rhythm while being squashed, and think to talk dirty to keep him at peak excitement without loosing rhythm. The last one is most difficult. Any bottom who does not mind her hygiene and just lays there quietly sure won't drive her men crazy wanting it and will wonder why he won't answer the phone or want more.

As far as not being aroused, with my men you are right. I in fact have to hide it, or tuck it away which is hard for me physically especially if I was to get aroused. So I have to on top of everything else think it soft the whole time to prevent him from noticing. Lucky for me I can multi-task! :lol: June

 

love this haha

 

I'm a virgin but i'd be a top more than likely. The idea of bottoming makes me feel uncomfortable.

 

I always see myself as doin both. I don't want the typical masculine and feminine relationship, I want both to be both If that makes any sense. I answered I don't know though since I've never taken it to practice.

 

I can't say since I'm a virgin - but I voted for top, since that just seems more....enjoyable to me, rather than having my alimentary canal penetrated with foreign objects....

That being said, I do finger myself and enjoy it, so who knows.....but my ass is pretty tight.

 

I put bottom, I am still a virgin but I enjoy playing with my ass more pleasurable than playing with my dick. I have never really seen myself as the one doing the penetration.

 

I don't know, lacking personal experience. Feel I'd be a top, barring equipment issues...

 

I feel more comfortable imagining myself as the bottom.

 

I'm a top with a fear of being a bottom.

 

Pretty much what he said. Except, i loath the stigma that there are more bottoms than tops. To be honest, that's silly!

Tops are all over and the ONLY reason people think so is that they look for gayness in a gay through a "gaydar" which tends to highlight feminine reactions in men. And feminine stereotypically= bottom.

But there are tuns of feminine tops out there. Just as much as masculine bottoms. And lots of Masculine guys at ur school, gym, church, mall whom you walk pass with a girl, or a group or guys or by them self that you would think is straight until.... and then you're like "I'd have never guess; my duh!"

 

I have a very good male straight friend who is probably one of the toppest tops? (is that a term?) I know. We've talked a lot about the lifestyle he has chosen to lead. In his opinion, the sub is the one who controls the depth of the relationship.

Maybe that different among gay guys than straights. I know it is among lesbians.

 

I simply don't have any interest in penetrating anything/anyone, but the idea of being penetrated really turns me on xD

I think my entire personality is wired for me to be sexually submisive. The idea of being "dominant" or topping doesn't interest me in the slightest. I would only try it with some serious convincing by like a boyfriend (if i ever get one)

Not sure if there are actually more bottoms than tops really. There are feminine tops and feminine bottoms, so if me bottoming makes me more "feminine" then who really cares?? I for one don't and thats really all that matters. There are some tops that never try to bottom because they think its feminine/you lose some masculinity by receiving xD i'm obviously still a virgin, but from what ive heard an anal orgasm is pretty amazing, and most straight guys don't ever dare to even try to arouse themselves in that area for fear of being thought of as a "pussy" or of being weak/cowardly/feminine/non-masculine.

 

I am a Bottom (Based on my fantasies).. I'm more of a submissive guy.

 

same here

 

I think I would be a vers. Sometimes the idea of penetration really turns me on, but sometimes the idea of being submissive really turns me on.