Have you ever taken a nudie shot on your cellphone for your significant other?

Um lol why would you have a 'nudie shot' on your cell phone for your significant other? Shouldn't he already have intimate knowledge of what your nude body looks like from actual in-person contact? Why would he need a pic on a phone?

Of course I don't have a significant other, so I can't really answer this question.

Though I do have 'nudie shots' (lol that sounds so juvenile) on my phone.

However as long as you keep your face out of the pics, I don't think it's going to do any harm. Ultimately a lot of human bodies all look alike below the neckline.

 

It is a conscious act. I wasn't forced to do it. My decision to do it was immature; I finally had guys who would *care* .. blah blah blah, the usual. It's crazy. I just want others to know that this stuff happens, and not to make it out to be the worst thing in the world, because it did happen. I'm glad you all were able to handle it; I wasn't. So please, share your tips and tricks and maybe others won't have to deal with it. Now that would make a great support thread!

 

yes I have :icon_redf

 

I have quiet a few times when i was younger

 

Nudie shots are like the reason Snapchat was invented :lol:

 

Does it have to be significant other? What about friend with benefits, etc?

 

Bump because I just saw this

Personally, the pictures are more than "here is what I have" and more of "this is hot because of what he is doing/showing in the picture". And while you can know how your partner looks like, having a picture to look at is a powerful thing. Its the same reason why many of us have pictures of our family members hanging around our houses or even in our wallets. Our memories are not the best and we like to look at pretty stuff.

Also, there are many kinky stuff that you can try one time, but you want to keep the memory of what you did. Sort of like taking pictures of that one cool camp you went to that one summer lol It just so happens that sex is involved. And its fun to go through the pictures together in the future and be like "oh, yeah that was a hot night".

But yeah, there are plenty of reasons

 

^ Just to add to that, I have a personal experience

So this isn't my first internet relationship. But it's the strongest by far.

My first internet relationship had LONG phone calls between the two of us. One of them which, after I had just gotten out of detention (for being late to class), included the request for me to sext him.

I ended up not doing it for several reasons:

1. I don't want to be responsible for people finding my dick on my phone pictures, even if it's myself

2. Sexting was considered taboo at the time

3. The biggest reason is that if someone's going to see my naked body, it's going to be in person. I don't want to lie, I don't want to mislead anybody. Plus, if I'm going to have a relationship, I want it to be because we legitimately love each other. Not because we like to see each other's junk.

Take that, conservatives.

 

I don't have a significant other, so there's no point

 

I have, he's the only one between us that likes seeing me naked.

 

on a few occasions i have .

 

The main reason I wouldn't is that I'm not a big fan of pictures of people (regardless of who is in them). I guess I don't really see the point in most situations.

I see we think pretty similar in this area. I won't judge anyone that does it but I have never done it and I would never do it. Once you send something out there, you have no control over what happens to it. That is one of the last things I need to pop up when a future employer (or my current employer for that matter) looks around. This is especially important because, as a female, the backlash from society will be much worse for me than it would be for most males. I'd probably be out of a job.

Possible negative future consequences aside, it still wouldn't be something I'd be interested in doing. Just not my thing

 

we both do that sometimes

 

What Chip was saying all seems to make sense but when you boil right down to it, it isn't what we read or learn that drives us to do the things we do. It's simply being in the moment and feeling a sense of "I'm not doing anything wrong" even if it's only for 2 seconds. You can't dwell on the past and in the future something's going to happen to shame the future generation again, that's how life works basically.

 

Never had a Significant Other, but if I did I probably would. They would probably have to take a bullet for me before i did though :lol:

And this is what I would use.

 

in past relationships with men yes i have i kinda felt pressured too :/