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Size matters to me....

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Brakmek, Jul 15, 2013.

  1. Brakmek

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    Just to update: I don't know whether thickness causes more pleasure or not, but I've measured anyway.

    So, in total: length: 7 in., width: 2 1/2 in., around: 6 in.

    Does all that effect a partner's pleasure?

    Sincerely,
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  2. AKTodd

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    No, not really. What effects a partner's pleasure is how you use it and taking an active interest in their pleasure. You could be 10in and if you are inconsiderate in bed or only care about doing things you enjoy or doing things in a way that may feel great for you but does little or nothing for your partner, then you will quickly find that your big dick is pretty meaningless.

    Here's a few basic thoughts:

    If you're giving oral, your size does not matter

    If you're receiving oral, your size generally does not matter except for specific acts, in which case being extra large can be a disadvantage.

    If you're giving or receiving a handjob, your size does not matter.

    If you're bottoming, your size does not matter.

    If you're topping, within broad limits, your size does not matter. You fall well within those broad limits, so this won't be an issue for you.

    Finally, I would point out that there is nothing whatsoever that you can do to make your penis any bigger than what it will ultimately be. It may get bigger than it is now. Or it may not. So stressing over the issue doesn't seem like a very productive use of your time.

    If you just really really want to spend time on a subject relating to your penis (and that can actually pay dividend later when you start having sex), why not work on getting really good at masturbation or something? There are lots of different methods (including a website that's been cited here once or twice, don't recall the name), lubes, etc., plus you can use it as an opportunity to start mapping your erogenous zones.

    How will this pay dividends later? Because what you learn with yourself you can use as a starting point when having sex with someone else. They probably won't like exactly the same things you do, but they probably won't know a lot of the stuff you know either and you might be able to pleasantly surprise them in various ways. Which will end up impressing them a lot more than some particular size of penis that you don't know how to use properly.

    My 2c worth,

    Todd
     
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    Well I'm not sure what gay/bi guys think of their partners penis size, but I know a lot of girls don't like it when guys are too big because it just hurts. They'd rather have width than length. But again, that's girls' views on it. I don't know about most guys.
     
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    Um, is this thread supposed to be trolling? Making a thread to whine about being too small at "only" 7 inches seems like you just want to show off what a big penis you have. And of course everyone on the internet has a big penis to brag about. I have a hard time believing that you really thought 7 inches was small.

    Btw, are you sure you measured the correct way? What do you mean by inside of the curve? You want to measure the length of the top of your penis from base to tip.

    ---------- Post added 21st Jul 2013 at 04:24 PM ----------

    One other thing, you also mention circumcision.

    Circumcision has a tendency to reduce penis size (overall intact penises are on average larger than cut penises). It removes a lot of skin that prevents your erect penis from reaching its full size as designed by nature. While circumcision is a grotesque evil that needs to be banned, for those who are already victims of it, you can actually increase your penis size with foreskin restoration. By growing more loose skin, your penis is free to grow to its full size without having to pull up scrotal skin, which makes your penis appear smaller. Lots of cut men who had tight erections were able to gain inches in penis size by loosening up their skin with foreskin restoration.
     
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    I'm not trolling, I legitimately didn't know that 7 inches was long. I still feel like it's pretty short:confused:. I'm only 14 so I've never seen another person's penis before, so I have nothing realistic to base it off. And by the "inside of curve," I mean that I measured with the ruler facing me as I curve upwards, not downwards or not at all.
     
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    Most people would be jealous of your penis size tbh.
    As most of the above said, don't let the size of porn star's penises to persuade you that yours is small. It is a good size and you should be happy with it!
    :slight_smile:
     
  7. Stridenttube

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    You never miss a chance to blow anything circumcision related way out of proportion do you? You're only making people who.are circumsized feel bad about themselves. I don't get it.
     
  8. Rakkaus

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    Uh, the OP mentioned that he was circumcised in relation to penis size, and I brought up a relevant issue related to it, and how he could address it (such as circumcision causing skin tightness that prevents the erection from reaching its full size, which can be addressed by foreskin restoration techniques). Sometimes guys are cut so tight that that they can't even get hard without pulling up half their scrotal sack skin (the turkey neck), which makes their penis look a lot smaller too, so I would recommend restoration for anyone who has this issue. Many circumcised guys I know who have done foreskin restoration have gained penis size as a result, as their penis restores to the form nature designed it to be.

    Anyway circumcision doesn't get 1/1000th of the attention that it needs to be getting in our society. The fact that circumcision gets so disproportionately little attention despite being such a widespread horrendous violation of human rights is what is truly mind-boggling. As long as little boys are still at this very moment being strapped to tables screaming and crying as their most private parts are sexually mutilated...I ain't gonna shut up about circumcision.
     
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    :roflmao: That made me laugh!

    Anywhosies, like many have said, you should be proud of that size. I barely make it to 6 in. fully erect and...yeah. Still, I'm happy with it, and you should be happy with yours too.

    And please, anybody who reads this, don't measure yourself to porn stars. They're porn stars.
     
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    :lol: :eusa_clap
     
  11. Brakmek

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    I totally agree about the baby foreskins thing. It's also mainly Christians and Jews that make their children get circumcisions, whether they are babies or not.
     
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    You see your penis from a different angle to how you see other penises - looking at it from above makes it harder to judge its size. If you saw yours from the front or the side, like you see them in porn and like anyone else will see yours, it'll look bigger than it will from above. So you're not seeing your penis realistically. You're definitely above average.
     
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    I don't know about you guys but I prefer penises that aren't too big lol
    Does anyone else think the same?