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How to deal with this one guy who I think is obsessed with me?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Beware Of You, Jul 12, 2013.

  1. Beware Of You

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    So I vaguely know this one gay I met when I lived in Wales but I didn't know he is gay (This is before I came out) and he added me on facebook.

    When I came out, and put it on facebook he has started constantly messaging me on facebook, like constantly sexting me, keeps on saying "I have been into you ever since you came out" , and constant messages about sex.

    Its kinda annoying me, I think he has this borderline obsession with me, there are always messages from him, he always wants photos of my body and bits (That I don't share)

    Anyone know how to deal with him ?
     
  2. AKTodd

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    Why not just politely tell him you're sorry, but you don't like him that way?

    Todd
     
  3. FluffyKinz

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    Tell him bluntly that he is bothering you. If he refuses to listen then cut contact with him. If he's always wanting pictures and doesn't see/care that he's making you uncomfortable then that's.... a bit creepy. Sounds like the guy needs to understand the concept of personal space > .>
     
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    Ignore or block? If youre annoyed thats easy to do.
     
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    Yes, this seems like a no-brainer. But, you should first be direct with him in saying you're not interested. Don't act coy and add fuel to his obsession (some people love to chase those who are hard to get).
     
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    That attitude is so creepy, in my opinion.