Hello lesbians and bi women! :D i have a question for all of you...

I love tall women. I'm of fairly average height myself (5'4") but I think tall women with long legs are absolutely gorgeous. Long hair is awesome. Tattoos (as long as they are meaningful and well placed) are a huge turn on. If her personality sucks though, she's instantly unattractive.

 

I'm pansexual, all girls look good to me, but I don't look for that.

 

artistic girls, interesting looking. I love the acress you showed, she is stunning! I tend to like darker skinned girls more but I have no national preference, curvy but helthy body, strong, tall, big smile!

 

Butch women, with rough hands and soft eyes. They make me melt.

 

I am as obsessed with nice boobs as a 14 year old boy but apart from that I like a nice smile ,eyes and curves.

 

I like redheads. A lot. Otherwise, I tend to notice girls with black hair, though not if they have pale skin. Degree of masculinity /femininity is pretty much indifferent, which also allows for various body shapes (not too skinny, though).
Then again, in summer when everyone wears as little clothing as possible, I'll just spend my entire day eyeing anyone sexy, regardless of their hair or skin color...

 

:lol:

I don't get it, either. When people answer like that, it's like they're talking about "hot people" and "not hot people" like they're species or a race, like people are unanimously one or the other. The Pretties and the Uglies (hey isn't that a book?). There is no overall "this is what hot is" and "this is what ugly is," so it's just hilariously pointless to make a point in saying "but I'd date an Ugly, too, if they were nice!" That's what I take from people always responding with "but I only care about personality." It's like...you're kind of insulting whoever you'll end up with because...well you're basically saying they're ugly, but you don't care about that. Or at the very least not acknowledging anything physically attractive about them would hurt their feelings a little. I know I'd get peeved after a while.

Me: "Do I look good in this?"
Girl: "You're a good person, nothing else matters."
Me: "...Is that a no?"
Girl: "I just want you and your beautiful soul with me at the party tonight."
Me: ":rolle: Yeah that's all fine and dandy Jesse McCartney, but I'd like to know that when I walk into the room it takes all your might not to rip this little black number from my body and have at me."

The point of that little skit is to say people like being desired physically just as much as being loved emotionally. And it only matters that the person they're with feels both these things, not everyone in the room/world/etc. So they don't want to be seen as hot by everyone, just by you, the person that loves them. Nowt wrong with that and nowt wrong with liking their hotness. In most relationships, especially ones that last, there's a always a mix of both. To treat one aspect like it doesn't matter (whether you're saying it's all about looks or saying it's all about personality) is well weird. So really saying "I don't care about looks, only personality" seems, (to me anyway-not universally so), just as douchey as people saying "I only care about looks, fuck personality." Seems like in people's attempt to not sound superficial, they just end up sounding superficial in a hipster-y, "too cool for school" kinda way. :lol: Hilarious to witness, but very unnecessary.

What everyone considers to be hot and attractive varies from person to person, so one man's physically "ugly" could be another man's physically "hot," and the first guy's opinion wouldn't matter because the second man is the one with the person and he considers he/she to be hot. Did I already make that point? I think I did, but sometimes I'm a knobhead who can't understand myself until I make the same point in a few different ways. Bear with me here. I'm almost there.

Everyone is attractive to someone is my main point, so there's no need to denounce favoring a particular set of physical features or deny liking any physical features at all to avoid sounding like an asshole because truth of the matter is, finding someone attractive is (shockingly, I say mockingly) a good thing. ...Well, I'll be. :icon_wink

 

I like a pretty face, and short skirts. I like girls who wear short skirts with pretty faces o.o

 

Things I like in a girl? I like nerdy girls ^)^ I find nothing more adorable then a cute girl with glasses who obsesses about video games or anime, or something of the like. I like her to be smart, but yet knows how to be fun. As for physical appearance? I like a bit of a boyish face, and smaller breasts, slim and maybe a little tomboyish, haha ^)^

 

I don't think there's a particular thing in their appearance that I like. I'm more that I meet someone and its their personality that makes me attracted to them. One of my first crushes was a girl at school and I thought they were actually quite unattractive (for about 4 years!) until I became their friend and then shortly afterwards I developed a crush on them.

I guess I do like more girly girls though? But that's all I can think of!

 

^Ladies and Gentlemen, I direct you upward to Exhibit A of my 2nd post. :lol: Idek dear, I'm sure your lady loves appreciated you being with them despite their unfortunate faces. How flattered they must have felt.

 

Nerdy girls are my weakness. It's endearing when the object of my affection is as awkward as I am.

 

Darkish hair, pale skin, around my height (5'4"), and doesn't think I'm a freak for loving stuff like video games, Imperial Russia, British TV shows, etc.

^Rivers: I know, right?!

 

My thoughts exactly!

:roflmao: Deepficial. Oh man, good one, I'll have to use that.

 

I guess I like women (and men ) taller than me, which isnt really hard to do as im a bit over 5'2 i think. though in women just normal height, not too tall. and then EYES absolutely, i love eyes. the eyes have to smile and sparkle. and i dont like those really dark eyes cause they often look so hard and you cant see what the person thinks or feels. there are exceptions though.
generally, i also go for androgynity in men and women. boyish girls and girlish boys. i dont know about trans people, havent actually met anyone yet, well okay there was lauriel london (i think thats her current name anyways) but i didnt have a conversation with her...and she was too tall for me, especially with those heels -.- but i will not rule that out. maybe i am pansexual, just hadnt had any opportunity to find that out yet.
then...implied in androgynity is, i dont like enormous boobs, im totally fine with A,B or at the most C cup. maybe its because i have so small hands, so everything bigger would just be wasted.
but i do like a nice ass, everyone should have an ass at least^^ and slender people, though that is more important in men than in women. women are able to wear a few extra pounds and look super hot. men just arent able to do that as well, for some reason.
i like long hair, all colours, but i usually fall more quickly for darker brown and really light blonde. that is, if its the natural colour, or if its just a bit brightened up, not if they went from black to bleachblonde. the hair just looks so dead then poor hair. i think if i ever develop a proper fetish, its gonna be for hair.
and then whyyyyy does about every lesbian in my city have short hair? i dont approve! sure theyre like "easier" to recognize then, but i just dont like it and i mean like boy-cut, shorter than a bob.
but personality is really important! as i am crazy, they have to be crazy enough to handle me. and laugh, like a lot. and make me laugh, but thats really not hard^^ e.g. theres a very hot girl in my semester, but i just cant talk to her. its like shes leading a different conversation than the one you are having, so awkward.... and a lot of people think that, not just me^^
i dont like mean people. i am boring. i like for everything to be harmonic and loving and with as little quarrels as possible
but, as WillowMaiden said, always a mix of both.

 

I have a girlfriend

 

Difficult to pick a favorite type -- one or more of these works for me, if we're talking about physical attraction:

Curvy, a bit heavier than the typical ideal weight, but in proportion. Overly large breasts lose points.

Butch/masculine/androgynous -- in that case, thinner is okay, but not too thin (I don't like any sort of thin for the "feminine" women)

Red hair if longer, any color if shorter hair.

Generally dislike makeup, nail polish, etc -- that's one reason I don't watch porn with females (of any orientation). That's probably an unfair bias of mine.