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Do you like your "own" type in your own gender?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tightrope, Jun 3, 2013.

  1. Beware Of You

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    Lol this seems to be common, my BF is a bear and he loves my body to bits (I am sort of a big twink)
     
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    Yeah, good way to describe it i guess. Though there are exceptions!
     
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    Opposites attract you know!
     
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    I guess you could say the way I look is sorta what I am attracted to.

    I actually want them bigger than me, taller than me, and more masculine.

    I <3 bears.
     
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    Not physically cause I like bears for guys and rather skinny for girls. Not mentally cause I absolutely love intellectual people. So my answer is no.
     
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    If I could find someone with my personality I would fall in love instantly lol, but idk if I really could date someone that looks like me, maybe some similarities but not a crazy amount haha I would never want to be seen dating my own clone.
     
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    Probably not, I was friends with someone like that back in grade school and it ended very badly. It was responsible for lot of shit I went through. Plus I find I connect with people who are more outgoing than myself, although I do connect with people over similar interests regardless of introversion/extroversion.
     
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    I'd date me. Maybe.
     
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    My ideal is a somewhat more masc. body than mine, but otherwise I prefer same.
     
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    um, I don't think I've ever encountered someone who looks like me so I guess opposite.

    But, I like nerdy guys. Glasses, dice, trading cards, D&D, geeks are sexy.

    once a guy, who I thought was kinda cute, yelled: "By Odin's beard!"

    He went from cute to F-ing hot just like that.
     
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    Yeah.

    I'm a femme and i like other femmes.
     
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    I like being around bears but generally prefer someone a bit more fem. as a date. Some bears are very sweet and cuddly. I would date that kind. The women I date tend to be like my mom; opinionated, stubborn and controlling.
     
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    I like a dynamic contrast in relationships. I don't think I'd like someone exactly like me period because I'm pretty crazy. I think I might even be too crazy for myself at the moment. I am also not attracted to redheads. However, I don't think I've ever met another genderfluid in person before, so that could be interesting.
     
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    I mean, it's not like I woudln't but it's not really a sticking point; I definatly wouldn't date myself though since my personality would just clash. I like people to take the lead and be kind of dominent or at least be pretty assertive but I'm just kind of the oppisite of that.

    Plus I've been getting hit on by (and I'm into) a bunch of really hot big black guys. No offense, but I'm not a big black guy and I couldn't claim that in a million years :lol:.
     
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    NO. In general, I like someone opposite in looks and matching/compatible in personality.
     
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    Yes I like guys similar to me. Although I can also like beefier, more masculine guys so it just depends. There are very few rules I have about my attractions that I couldn't find exceptions to, depending on the individual.
     
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    I actually did find someone who looked exactly like me a couple weeks ago and it really freaked me out
     
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    Lol if that were always true then everyone would be straight and nobody would be attracted to anyone in their 'own gender'.
     
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    well I do dig guys with long hair and girls with short hair, but not specifically.
    I have long hair, so that's opposite I guess.

    I love tattoos, especially neck or sleeve tattoos.
    I have a couple but nothing too obvious so that goes either way.

    I like people with bootys, love me some curves and pot bellys, in any gender.
    I like toned, or thinner body types, but only in more masculine people.
    I'm not always big fan of itty bitty feminine people.
    So that's the same as me, i'm curvy.

    All in all, physically, I may be drawn to some people off the hop but once I really see someone because i'm made to look, I often find beauty, I'm amazed my humanity's beauty.
     
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    Hm, I`m like Lex on this one. I don`t really have a "physical type". Sure, I do fall mostly for femininity, but details and body-type is a lot less relevant. But yeah, main category I do prefer feminine girls, like me. However, it doesn`t mean I couldn`t fall for someone more androgynous, because I am very much a "fall for the personality" girl. Personality-wise, I prefer someone who has the same base ideals as I do, same base values. I wouldn`t have fallen for someone completely like me, I think, because that would really make for an unbalanced relationship. So, some differences in way of thinking, way of being, to balance, but with the same moral core and values. Yes and no?