Scars, would ya love 'em?

I'd love them, but I would be concerned about their self esteem and if that would have a negative effect on the relationship. I want someone who values themselves and who (if for some reason we broke up) wouldn't harm themselves or not be able to be trusted alone.

If I saw SI scars, I would kiss every single one of them, and instantly try to help them and encourage them to seek help for it. The mood would pretty much be killed for me at that point as my protective nature rather than my primal sexual nature would surface, but I would still love them of course.

 

I have hundreds of em, all but 2 self inflicted. I think I've had enough experience to understand the emotions behind them. It's an exchange, emotional pain for physical pain. We'd both have them so we'd both understand I'd hope. I wouldn't have a problem at all, but it'd be kind of difficult to think of all the pain they went through.

 

I love my scars. I have several, one on my left leg, several on my right arm, and on along my neck.
The ones on my arm and leg arm from surgeries to fix my arm, I had a fibulae graft done in summer of 2003, and then a couple of surgeries in 2006 because I shattered my lower humorous. The one on my neck was from the removal of a growth.

Those are from surgeries, I have more, but from injuries.

 

I would definitely love them the same.

 

It would be calling the kettle black seeing as I have self harm scars myself , I think id be relieved that I didn't have to explain selfharm to them they would understand and not judge me , but id also feel upset that they didn't think they where worth more than that because If I was sleeping with her I would think she was worth a lot

 

I've always had a thing for scars. They're like proof of how brave someone is, you can see only a percentage of what they've been through on their skin, the worst of the physical, and yet they're standing in front of you and smiling, despite all the pain they've felt and been marked by. That's beautiful.

 

Scars wouldn't bother me, though I know they gross my brother out. (Both of my parents had fun with him when they had their gall bladders removed). Thing is, if I get close to someone, they'll probably feel one of my scars. Got a big one on the back of my head where a cyst was removed. Actualy, this is part of the reason I don't like getting my hair cut, because when I go in, they see me as a guy, and want to give me a short haircut, exposing that dime size scar that doesn't grow hair, and I have gotten questions about it after getting haircuts before.

 

I don't mind it. after yesterday I may have a very visible one from now on >_>

 

I mean, if I really loved the person, they would probably seem virtually perfect in my eyes, so why would scars make any difference. They would probably even seem beautiful, right?

 

I would definitely still love them. Maybe even a little more. Scars from accidental injuries I actually find quite attractive like everyone else seems to; the whole "it adds character" thing plus the fact that I think it makes people seem stronger. And if the scars were from self-harming, I would feel an intense need to protect them from ever hurting enough to do that again and I would probably also kiss every single one of them like heartincheck said. Either way, I would love them more for their scars, probably even more if it was from SI because from then on my biggest goal would be to make them as happy as I possibly could.

 

Yes, even Keloid Scars, it's the person that counts & scars are only human skin

 

I wouldn't care if someone had scars, I have a collection of scars ranging from my lower back down :icon_sad:, so, I'd love the scars of whoever could love mine.