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Come Out to biphobic mom?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by say what, May 18, 2013.

  1. say what

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    I'm under alot of pressure, but she will probobly kick me out.::bang: I am fully dependent, and she is already disapointed in me. So, come out?(&&&)
     
  2. Femmeme

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    What do you feel like you need to come out right now? How old are you? Do you have somewhere to go if she kicks you out?
     
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    Yes,but i'm 13 and have nowhere to go.
     
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    I would wait. If you don't have a place to go, wouldn't you rather not tell her and have a house rather than telling her and risking becoming homeless?
     
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    I advise you to wait till you're older.

    Why are you feeling like you need to come out right now?
     
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    Probably best not to. Being homeless is likely to be worse than not being open about your sexuality.
     
  7. Bobbybobby99

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    It would be different if you had anywhere else to go, but I reccomend waiting until you do have another place before telling her if you think she is going to kick you out.
     
  8. If you've nowhere else you could go, I wouldn't say anything just yet. Wait until you're financially independent or at least have somewhere safe to stay. Just in Case the wirst case scenario pans out.
     
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    Thank you guys.
     
  10. Sapphic Spartan

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    I agree that it is best to wait until you have financial independence.
    As a mostly closeted bisexual, I feel like I need to point out that this is not always easy to hide. There will be moments when you really just want to tell everyone and be done with it. But if you are young and in a biphobic environment, it is safest and smartest to keep it a secret for now, despite the difficulties.