If You were offered the choice would you choose to be Homosexual/Bisexual/Transgender

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So would you?

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  2. No

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  1. jaxeypoo

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    I'd stay being gay. If you would have asked me 6 months ago I would have said Straight. But I've accepted myself, and I can't imagine myself in a relationship with a Woman. I'm happy being who I am ^_^
     
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    Right...?

    I've accepted myself and I don't give a crap if people don't like it, but religiously it has been very hard to resolve... I just hope I can reach LGBTQ members as a personal testimony since no other Christian seems to want to... That's the only resolve I can muster.
     
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    Honestly, I can't be straight. I cannot see myself, even imagining myself as a straight person, CANNOT see myself with a woman. It's just...ugh. Weird. I'd be gay.
     
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    # When I was just a little boy, I asked my Mother what will I be, will I be Gay, Bisexual or Straight? here's what she said to me "Gay you are, you are, oh Gay you are, you are, Gay you are, you are, that's what you will be# :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    If I had the choice? I'd choose this. Call me mayb- crazy.
     
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    Re: If You were offered the choice would you choose to be Homosexual/Bisexual/Transge

    Have you ever seen any John Waters movies?

    "The world of the heterosexual is a sick and boring life!"

    :badgrin::badgrin::badgrin:

    Well, when I was younger I wanted to be straight, but now I am so glad that I am so goddamn queer I p rainbows. Life would be unbearable if I didn't like bananas or pears. :eusa_droo

    ---------- Post added 8th Apr 2013 at 01:49 PM ----------

    That obvious huh? You lucky, lucky boy. :icon_bigg
     
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    No. If I had a choice in the matter, I'd be a straight cis male. Maybe this is just my self-hate talking, but I don't like anything about being trans*. Absolutely nothing. And being "normal" (by society's standards) would make me feel a lot better. I'd probably be a completely different person and nothing like who I am, but whatever.
     
  8. jeanie

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    I wish that I was asexual. I actually think things would be so much simpler.
     
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    I would not change, this is who I am
     
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    I wouldn't change now because I know this is who I am and I love myself :slight_smile: but going through the acceptance phase I probably would've chosen to be straight to be honest, just because the possibility of being gay seemed so daunting back then.
     
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    I honestly wouldn't choose anything besides being gay. I know that I am me, I love who I am, and that there's nothing wrong with me. I know I have talked to a few gay friends about it and some of them wish that they had an attraction to females. I don't. I am who I am and I don't wish to change it.
     
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    Id stay gay - I live in a city where gays are accepted. My family accepts me for who I am. I dont know what it feels like to be straight and I am strongly attracted to men. I have it easy like that. So its an easy choice for me. I wouldnt change who or how I am.
     
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    Yes. I would change myself to either gay or straight. But I don't know if I'd be able to choose between either gay or straight. I mean, I love women and I like being part of the LGBT community, but if I was straight I wouldn't have to face discrimination. Which is huge. Hmm... well, in any case, i'd be monosexual.

    Okay, on second thought, probably straight. Not having to face discrimination wins. Oh, man.. what a relief that would be!
     
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    I choose gay. While I was interested in boys for a while, I honestly find women far more interesting and feel that I'm far more comfortable being gay than I would be if straight. (Even though I'm not out.)
     
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    I would definitely be straight if I could. Being gay has caused me so much emotional/religious problems. Honestly I really want to like girls, but I find guys really attractive, and if I could make it work and marry a woman I would, but the idea of being with a guy just really makes me happy. Sometimes I feel like I just haven't met the right girl yet, as I have only had one girlfriend, but I really feel like men are attractive. But, I would definitely "go straight" if I had the chance. Gay people at my school are always getting beaten up on, and it would just make things sooo much less complicated if I was just normal. Thankfully no one knows about my homosexuality. I would lose just about every one of my few friends at my school, and my family would be ashamed of me. So yeah, I wish I was straight.
     
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    Re: If You were offered the choice would you choose to be Homosexual/Bisexual/Transge

    I'm not sure what I would choose if I had control over it. Having lived as a straight person for the vast majority of my life (up until a couple of years ago, when I realized I was bi), and considering how much easier it is to live in our society as a heterosexual, I would probably choose to be straight. That being said though, I have enjoyed every minute of my life as a bisexual woman.
     
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    If you base it on the world around me and pressures and and all that I'd choose straight. Erase all that and leave it up to just my own preference, I quite like being gay.
     
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    I would choose to be bi, I actually like being bi, lol :slight_smile: and people don't HAVE to know anyways.
    But I don't think I would choose being trans, given that I could just be born as a guy instead. (I would rather be born as a guy than have my 'trans feelings' disappear and be a ciswoman, if that makes sense)
     
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    I would definitely remain gay, I also couldn't imagine being in a relationship with a woman. I'm so glad that I am gay (and proud of course!), I just love the idea of spending my life with another man who will be willing to take care of me.
     
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    I would choose to be strait and cisgendered. Too much fear, confusion, and midnight breakdowns to not want to be.