Sex (Physiological): Female Gender Identity: Female/Woman Gender Expression: Feminine Preferred Pronouns: She/Her/Hers Sexual Orientation: (Sex based): Attracted to both with a slant towards men Sexual Orientation: (Gender based): Attracted to masculine girls (usually a mindset, not necessarily how they appear on the outside) and also just girls in general, probably to guys too? This is a rather confusing question. Romantic Orientation: Attracted to women Social Compatibility: The vast majority of my friends are women, but I would not mind having more guy friends. I just never seem to make any!
I'm still kinda confused on "gender-based" sexual orientation vs. romantic orientation. Can anyone clarify? I get that it's focusing on gender rather than physical sex, but I'm still stumped.
Sex (Physiological): Female Gender Identity: Woman Gender Expression: Androgynous-feminine to feminine Preferred Pronouns: She/Her/Hers Sexual Orientation: (Sex based): Attracted to female bodies Sexual Orientation: (Gender based): Attracted to women Romantic Orientation: Attracted to personalities, more feminine Social Compatibility: Pansocial
Sex: male Gender identity: agender Gender expression: both/neither Preferred pronouns: he/him/his Sexual orientation: (sex based): Male bodies (gender based): pansexual romantic orientation: panromantic social compatibility: pansocial (I feel more comfortable around girls usually but I think it's more of an issue with the boys that I've met...)
I don't really see the point of this. It's still giving people options that they have to choose from that may not always suit them. Visually, each option is represented by a line or apex. The use of an apex implies that 'gay' or 'straight' or whatever is the peak, but there is no implication of a scale between peaks. Therefore, people aren't able to pick where they feel they fit in along a scale. It still limits people to choosing gay, bi or straight.
Even though it's biased in the way discussed above, it's useful for separating the different components, things some people might not have considered. When people ask me about orientation, I want to ask if they mean physically, socially, romantically, etc. - I have different answers for each.
Sex (Physiological): Male Gender Identity: Male Gender Expression: Masculine Preferred Pronouns: He/Him/His and They/Them/Their Sexual Orientation (Sex-based): Attracted to both men and women Sexual Orientation (Gender-based): Same as above Romantic Orientation: Same as above Social Compatibility: bisocial or pansocial, most comfortable around girls and gay guys for some reason
Sex (Physiological): male Gender Identity: male Gender Expression: masculine Preferred Pronouns: He/Him/His and They/Them/Their Sexual Orientation (Sex-based): attracted to male/masculine bodies Sexual Orientation (Gender-based): men Romantic Orientation: attracted to men Social Compatibility: bisocial
I did mine a little differently... I felt like I needed to include a scale. Sex (Physiological): F--------------------xM Gender Identity: W--------------------xM Gender Expression: F----------------x----M *I don't really consider myself a many man, and can have a feminine side, so I slid the scale a little. Preferred Pronouns: S--------------------xH Sexual Orientation (Sex-based): F--------------------xM Sexual Orientation (Gender-based): W--------------------xM Romantic Orientation: W-------------------x-M *I feel like I can appreciate a romantic moment with a woman even though I'm attracted to men. Social Compatibility: W---x-----------------M *Almost most of my friends are female.
Sex (Physiological): Female Gender Identity: Female Gender Expression: A mix of feminine and sporty. Preferred Pronouns: She/Her/Hers Sexual Orientation (Sex-based): Lesbian (Kinsey 4-5) Attracted to female bodies. Sexual Orientation (Gender-based): Attracted to women. Romantic Orientation: Questioning. I'm a Kinsey 4-5 because I find some men slightly attractive. But I prefer women. Social Compatibility: I guess I'm bisocial? I have more female friends because I can relate to them better. But I can also hang out with guys. I don't really understand the term. XD
Sex (Physiological): Male Gender Identity: Male Gender Expression (Personality): Masculine, not completely there. Gender Expression (Appearance): Masculine Preferred Pronouns: He/Him/His Sexual Orientation (Sex-based): Attracted to male bodies Sexual Orientation (Gender-based): Attracted to men/boys Romantic Orientation: Biromantic, edging toward men/boys Social Compatibility: Bisocial,Pansocial, closer to men/boys. If that makes sense...
Sex (Physiological): Male Gender Identity: Female Gender Expression: Mostly Feminine, some Masculine tendencies. Preferred Pronouns: She/Her/Hers They/Them/Their - (When having to present as a male) Sexual Orientation (Sex Based): Pansexual Sexual Orientation: (Gender Based): Pansexual Romantic Orientation: Panromatic Social Compatibility: Girls are easier for me to talk to and make friends, but I get along with everyone.
Sex (Physiological): Female Gender Identity: Female Gender Expression: Feminine Preferred Pronouns: She/Her/Hers Sexual Orientation (Sex-based): Attracted to female bodies/asexual? Sexual Orientation (Gender-based): Attracted to women/asexual? Romantic Orientation: Attracted to women Social Compatibility: In between social with women and pansocial.
Pretty much one sided too Sex (Physiological): Male. Gender Identity: Man. Gender Expression: Masculine. Preferred Pronouns: He/Him/His. Sexual Orientation (Sex-based): Attracted to male bodies. Sexual Orientation (Gender-based): Attracted to men. Romantic Orientation: Attracted to men. Social Compatibility: Social with men.
Gender: Female Sex: Female Gender expression: Pretty darn feminine Gender pronouns: She/her/hers or they/them/theirs Sexual orientation by sex: I am confused by this separation. Is it not cissexist? Sexual orientation by gender: Oh great another bi means binary obligation. People-sexual leaning away from male. Sexual orientation by gender expression: Typically androgynous to feminine. Romantic orientation: People-romantic, leaning away from male. Social 'orientation': Almost completely gynosocial.
