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Closet status?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Eatthechildren, Jan 26, 2013.

  1. SimplyJay

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    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    Sexuality:
    Family : None, & no plans to tell
    Friends : None / no plans to tell
    CoWorkers : None, not even the 1 gay guy
    Random People : Could maybe count 1 member from another forum who I've met in real life.
    (and I've been to pride festivals before, obviously people woulda seen me there but I really don't count that since....whats another dull boring face in the crowd)
     
  2. Pret Allez

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    Location:
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    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    On sexuality

    Family: All immediate
    Friends: All
    Coworkers: One

    On gender presentation

    Family: All immediate
    Friends: All
    Coworkers: None
     
  3. hmph

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    sexuality:
    out to anyone and everyone, except for family. my parents know i have dated guys and girls, but luckily they don't care.

    gender:
    i've hinted at it with a couple friends. made jokes about it with just about everyone. i'll playfully call myself a man and flex my scrawny arms. hard to explain to someone that i don't feel i am specifically male or female, anyway, so i am comfortable being androgynous in appearance.
     
  4. Hexagon

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    Sexuality: I'm out as asexual to approximately 10 people, plus online. If asked, though, I usually say bisexual. Its much easier, and I don't get categorised as a freak.

    Gender: I think 'out' is the wrong word. I've been living stealth for years now. I came out, I moved country, I went in so far I almost forgot. I'm out to my family, two friends I knew before, and a friend/autism support volunteer.
     
  5. out to everyone but work.
     
  6. myheartincheck

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    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I just told my grandma and changed my out status!

    Those who know include:
    -myself!
    -grandma (and possibly grandpa)
    -parents
    -most friends
    -therapist
    -you guys!
     
  7. Invisigoth

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    Out to everyone
    Looking for a nice sweater to wear would be the only reason to be in the closet for me these days ..
     
  8. Awkward Balloon

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    This is probably less than the actual number, as most people have guessed it. But to my knowledge :
    Family - Mother and Father. Also a closeted bi trans cousin
    Friends - 3 girls(and one of their brothers) and 1 guy
    Coworkers(school) - Most have guessed, many rumours but not officially out yet.
     
  9. Lewis

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    Today I was with a whole group of friends, all of which knew I was gay which is really really rare. I felt so open. So I hope to get that closet status to out to everybody asap!
     
  10. hello1992

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    as my profile says: "i'm so far in the closet i am in Narnia". Is that Aslan is see in the distance!?
     
  11. timo

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    I'm out to most friends. Only two or three to go and I'm done. A lot of acquaintances//random people know it too, I always have the tendency to come out when I'm drunk.

    I'm not out to any family, but I think my parents suspect it (or they're very ignorant, haha). I don't talk about stuff like this with them but it's not like I hide it.