For me, women are like fine art. They are fun to look at sometimes, and I'm sure some people love it, but I do not want to have sex with fine art.
this x9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 ---------- Post added 27th Jan 2013 at 05:13 PM ---------- i loled :lol:
I definitely find girls certain girls to be very pretty, but I have no desire whatsoever to be with them, so I'm a Kinsey 6. Still, there are a couple girls I know that I would date in a heartbeat if I were straight. I have to be perfectly honest; I don't typically notice girls nearly as well as I do guys, but I'll sometimes catch myself admiring a girl's beauty to the point that it might look like I'm checking them out. I suppose I have slight biromantic leanings.
I think Emma Stone is absolutely gorgeous and I would totally date her or Anne Hathaway if I could but sadly they have "V" where I want a "P" as Emma says in Easy A
loool ---------- Post added 26th Jan 2013 at 11:12 PM ---------- l know, l think l was being too literal with it. And straight girls do that all the time, honestly l used to like talking about cute girls with straight girls but then it started to make me feel weird because l realized they just didn't see them like l do (l still have trouble making the distinction). l really thought these girls were just bi or curious, realized it meant nothing.
I definitely can appreciate an especially attractive guy, and will even get a little flustered when interacting with one. I spent 6 years exclusively dating guys (although I was aware of my attraction to women during the majority of those years), so I know I have SOME capacity to be attracted to men because although being with a guy never felt quite right, I was legitimately attracted to them at the time. I choose to identify as gay because my interest in men has diminished into practical non-existence over the last few years.
Yeah I do just like now I have a crush on a girl in my school.I find her sexy cute and funny but I don't find her sexually attractive.
:roflmao: Exactly, I can look and realize and acknowledge that a woman is attractive, even sexy. Bu I don't want to sleep with her.
reading this thread has revealed much of how i feel. i do find girls cute, though i dont have the interest that a straight guy would have. i would never go to a beach to look at girls, i could never resonate with my friends when they talk of girls like this. i find myself more emotionally attached to a girl, while more sexually attached to a guy. i enjoy holding hands with girls, cuddling, but when it comes to sex its very challenging to make it happen. recently met a girl at a drive thru, she liked me, we went on a few dates, it is a relief now its over.. because i know going back that way, pretending i can have a normal relationship with a girl does frustrate and even depress me. wish it could be so, but its not, i have to conclude that i am gay. a lingering fact for years in my life and i am almost 30 now. i think i do not feel comfortable with being gay, a barrier that probably leads me to believe that i could be normal and become attracted to girls, get married and have a normal relationship. its very hard for me to embrace the fact this will not be possible, and even if it did happen, it would equate to a lifelong period of denial, leading to frustration, as well as a hefty bill for ed drugs.....
That was how I realized that I'm gay is because it took so damn long to figure out that women can be pretty and beautiful and not attractive.
There are definitely women that seem cuter than others, and I do have a concept of beauty for women. Some are nicer to look at. But I don't really get any sexual attraction at all- I don't find women sexy, really.
