I wish I was cute

You have some serious self-image issues. Quite honestly It sounds like you may need to see a Therapist to help you with this problem.

 

I have 1 friend and that's my brother, I'm not easily dissapointed, I had a short online, long distance relationship with a hawaiian dude, I promise you, your nose can't be nearly as bad as his was!

 

please understand that going shopping is about having a good time together and not like, trying to walk down the runway...

ease up on yourself. it's hard to be with people who are all tensed up.

 

I want to ask, why are you making this thread again? Are you really looking for help? I am not sure if you take us seriously.

 

So you hate fashion? Do you just walk around in your birthday suit, if you do that's totally cool.
Also to the above, yeah it does kinda feel like that you aren't really looking for help, but I still wanna help, or try to.

 

This is his only thread. It was originally in the Health forum and I think a mod/admin moved it.

 

What things are you buying I thought you didn't like fashion.

 

I'll tell you one thing, if you're not thinking you're ugly, you'll be thinking you're something else. Getting a haircut helps drastically; I used to think I was ugly before I got a nice haircut, now I just think I'm dumb and poor. I'm pretty sure I'd just move on to something else once I made my money. There's no escape. I dunno what it is but you've probably got that exact thing I do. This general tendency to be miserable all the time.

The only thing I can suggest is try not to think about whatever's bugging you. If you train yourself not to think about it, you feel much better. Objectively, I'm willing to bet you're not ugly at all, and what I described is your real problem instead.

 

then don't compare to yourself with your friends. your friends and you are going to be raised differently, but are you going to shake the bonds between you and your friends over how you and your friends have different kind of life?

 

Damn baby you need to chill, I can't even remember the last time I bought something, and to be honest with you that's kind of a big problem, if you're spending cash on a new tv every month, or a guitar every other week, I mean I love a guy who can play guitar that's cool I like music but that shit gets expensive. What I think you need is a relationship.

 

I think you should talk to somebody and that's why we're here, right?

 

I used to be that way also. I used to think that I was ugly. A lot of "ugly" people are that way from influence. I used to think that I was ugly because my mom and gma said that I'm ugly from a very young age. So I started believing it. I got to high school, knowing that I'm gay and "ugly", I knew that I wouldn't be able to find a boyfriend. My social worker said that I am a cute boy. I realized that people did think that I was cute, mostly girls however since I was not out yet. I then realized that people that I was cute, but they were more attracted to my personality. I am interested in cute boys, however I started looking at myself through other peoples' eyes. I also started telling myself in the mirror everyday that I'm cute. It's a great trick that really works.

 

You sound like a great guy to me, and it's a shame people can be so superficial just to completely dismiss you based on looks, and I feel for you, but I highly doubt you're as terrible looking as you believe yourself to be, and unfortunately I don't think any of us will ever know cuz I don't even know if we're allowed to put up our real photos on this site. I just want to let you know that I would kill for a guy like you who can give me back the love I shower on people, I love simply making people happy, and I would like to make you happy.

 

yeah you can, there are people with their face as avatars and profile pic, you know...