Ive started having dreams about having a girlfriend now. Most of my lesbian dreams used to just be about sex. But now I have dreams about having a girlfriend, just doing ordinary stuff with her. Just thought I'd share It also makes me remember a strange dream I had when I was 18 or 19 about a really beautiful woman. In the dream "God's voice" said "this is the person for you". At the time I thought I was straight, and when I woke up I was extremely confused.
Very interesting. I have and have had a lot of dreams like that, especially before I really admitted to myself that I am truly bisexual, maybe even lesbian, since my dreams--and my real life--are dominated by thoughts of being with women and not with men. Happy dreaming!
not long ago i dreamed that i was getting married to a woman. in my dream i couldn't remember her name or her face but i was very happy. dreams are really great
I wish after years of Catholic school God and I would be friendly enough that he would show me the person for me Unfortunately my dreams aren't that deep!
Haha yeah, I have those kind of dreams once in a while. I had a hard childhood and occasionally would get these absolutely crystal clear images in dreams that basically would give me hope and guide my life. The one with the beautiful woman, I still remember her face. The strange thing is, she was in a wheelchair. I think its partly because Im a really visual person. All my thoughts are in visual or "movement" form (basically swirls of energy for lack of a better word) and then need to be translated into a language. Because of this I pick up foreign languages quickly, because the base of my thoughts is not words, its pictures and "forms".
I've been having dreams about being in love with/being with women for over a year now. I ignored them and hated having them because I doubted that I liked women like that. But they sort of encouraged my questioning and now I'm enjoying them much more.
I'm not a very sexual person, so I normally only have cute daydreams about being with a girl. Running up and hugging her from behind, or her burying her face into my jacket on the train. It sounds stupid, but it's what I think about.
You guys are lucky. I hardly ever dream. And when I do, it never ends up being a sex dream. It's always about war or something.
Wow @NikkiPardus, that's so cool....Ive had dreams about androgynous (genderless) people a few times...there was a beautiful Asian man/woman in a few of them. But thats crazy that they almost never have gender. Goes to show you how much dreams can tell you about your brain and subconscious.
I have only had sex dreams that are heterosexual...as men a man and a beautiful woman getting it on the simple way. i have never dreamed of a wedding when asleep. i did try to imagine my wedding day several times and had difficulty with it. never could imagine the man, and not a honeymoon, and it seemed akward. I just liked the beautiful bridesmaids in shiny silk 1950s dresses. if life would let me choose i would be a real man, born that way, inside and out.id prefer to marry a lady and i can imagine a honey moon then! idk if i could see myself marrying a man if i was a man, but i can't see myself as a woman marrying a woman...yet that is what everybody would see if i did marry a girl.
Hey! I keep having dreams like that too!! It's crazy and makes it really difficult for me to sleep...