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Gay and Goth

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by everett, Nov 15, 2012.

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    I wish I was :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I think I'm eternally stuck in that "baby bat" stage of my gothiness. I really like the fashion, the makeup and the hair but I'm always too nervous about expanding my fashion horizons... Also, I'm worried about looking too "feminine" with all the makeup(because I really want to wear makeup like that) but some looks like trad goth look pretty nice :slight_smile:. Maybe once I'm more confident with myself, I'll start exploring the makeup. Don't mind me, just rambling.
     
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    Im a goth! More on the ebm/electroindustrial side though. And the europian kind, i think goths in usa are usually a bit different.

    At the moment im at the worlds largest (i think) goth festival and im wondering where are all the lesbians. I only see girls with men. Oh well, i can still look :icon_wink
     
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    i used to kno this girl in highskool my sisters age (4 yrs older) who was "goth", she would paint her face white and dress up fully goth and i guess she still dresses up like that...i dont mean to judge but isnt there a time when u grow up? like whos gonna hire u when u look like that? highskool ur 13-18 still figuring urself out, but this girls in her 30s...maybe shes aftaid of change and that i cant blame her for but atleast try i think...idk...
     
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    Growing up doesnt mean you have to become boring. Im 28, i have a steady job (4,5 years already) and im also goth, have an unconventional haircut and sleeve tattoos. Im well liked at my work place and our customers are usually a bit older but they still like me. Of course im still a tomboy/butch so i look different in that way also. But i have never actually had any problems at my job because how i look.

    If growing up means that i have to give up someting that is my core being then i dont want to grow up.

    You are from usa so the goths are a bit different there i think. It seems that there is certain kind of teenage rebellion associated with goths in usa. Here in Europe lots of goths are older. Usually the oldest ones are 80s goths and younger ones are maybe more into electro. The stereotype goths with white face and black lipsyick are almost non existing here.
     
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    good point, yea i guess i was speakin in terms to what i see here lol...tats and whatnot arnt bad but yea white paint and black lipstick is too much imo...
     
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    ^ I agree, even though I'm only 26 :grin:

    Which festival is now? :astonished: I'm envious a little :< I wanted to visit 3 places this year.
     
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    I'm just that one emo kid. I could never pull off the Goth way of life.

    I'm trying to get into Lolita though, perhaps Gothic Lolita.
     
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    Its Wave Gotik Treffen. Schwarze Leipzig tanzt! Best time of the year, 20 000 goths and the whole city is like a black sea.
     
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    I'm gonna be sad now, I really really wanted to go there! :<
    By the way, I have a job which I like and I am one of the most liked workers there. People don't judge me by appearance. Not there. :3
     
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    I'm... I guess lowkey victorian gothic in ideal dress..
     
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    There was one member. I can't remember his name, though...
     
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    I am considered a modern day "emo" I guess, though real emo isn't truly a culture anymore. But many goths are really attractive, and they seem like real cool people
     
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    Haha, i apparently got checked out by a couple of gay dudes at a gig. So maybe i actually look enough gay that the other gays recognise me. My own gaydar is so bad so i cant approach pretty ladies here because i dont want to be a creep. But yes, goths are the best looking people.