Have you ever thought about what your first kiss will be like?

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  1. Nightmaric

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    I do, frequently, think of my first same sex kiss. I'm pretty sure it's happening this Friday with someone who I may start going out with. So I'm very excited. I hope I don't suck haha

    If all goes according to plan it will be in a movie theater after Sinister, so not romantic that much but I still want it. Hahaha
     
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    My first kiss put me into shock XD (I REALLY didn't expect it -_-) but it was still nice ^-^
     
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    I thought it would be lovely and romantic. It turned out to be during a game of Truth or Dare, with half a dozen people cheering us on, and we bumped teeth.
     
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    And the first non-dare kiss seemed on the outside to be a really sweet moment - a good friend of mine who I'd had some level of feelings for since I'd met her was sitting on my lap cuddling me, kissing my cheeks and my neck, then started kissing me on the lips. However, she was extremely drunk and claimed later on that I'd initiated it and she didn't remember it.
     
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    I think about mine all the time!

    I want one from my best friend so bad.

    It will be just like the movies in the rain, or out in the snow, or during a movie.

    I'm too romantic for my own good :/
     
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    My first kiss will be sooo perfect:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: its gonna be with someone i trulty love:slight_smile: we will go out on a date talk alot then he'll kiss me and my heart will start beating really fast and i'll fall in love:grin:
     
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    I think about it a lot. Funny thing is, the idea of kissing isn't really appealing to me, but I know that because it will be with the person I like, I'll love it.
    I often think about how I would step up and do it, because I doubt she'd make the first move.
     
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    I want my first kiss to be outside in the rain <3
    That would be so amazing.
     
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    I have, and it turned out to be awkward and itchy (he had facial hair), tasted like tongue and spit, and turned out to be a one night stand. Definitely not the quick turn into a dark alley on Christmas night and a forceful kiss up against a cold brick wall I was hoping it'd be.
     
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    I thought about mine a lot... so much so that eventually, I initiated it on my own... 2 weeks ago. I'd been seeing the guy for about a month, and shortly after we determined that we each wanted different things and put a halt to dating (he was very against relationships in general. It didn't end badly, but I told him I didn't want to keep seeing him if it could never go anywhere). But in my case, it didn't go as planned, but I can always say that I had the courage to make it happen instead of waiting around forever.

    Sometimes the kiss isn't the big moment, it's the point you realize you are actually ready for it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Just that with a girl, it will be more of an instant gratification thing. Whereas with a guy, part of my mind is still getting used to it, so despite also having fantasies about dudes - I'd be like the guy in the 'Protect me from what I want' film needing it to be slow for me to adjust and enjoy it.
     
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    before first kiss = anxiety
    when doing the first kiss = in an other world
    after the first kiss = i miss him /her!!!!!
     
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    My first kiss was pretty good, it was really sweet and I still think about it a lot. I'm glad my first kiss was with a guy.
     
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    I wasted my first real kiss on a girl. :tears:
     
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    My first kiss was not as I imagined it to be, though it was still very sweet (and awkward, I might add). I wouldn't fantasize about it too much because then the real experience will never live up to your ideas. I'm glad I didn't waste it though because now I will always remember it fondly, since it was with a girl I actually like.
     
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    Ha, it's really rather bad.
     
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    Ya u have same kinda but like I kiss him and I'm going to take a pic of it and put it on here
     
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    I think about it a lot too. And when I imagine it, it's not about where it happens, what's happening around us, or how it happens, it's just about who it is with. That's all that matters to me.
     
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    Well I've never kissed a guy but I've kissed plenty of girls so I don't imagine it being awkward at all.

    Can't wait to actually kiss a guy though. I get more excited thinking about kissing a guy than I ever have actually kissing a girl.