Blow jobs sex or not?

When in doubt-- NO.

and again,

Why would you have sex with someone you don't have feelings for?

 

Blow job = oral sex.

As for telling someone they're not your type, that's exactly what you've got to do. Something like, "Listen, this isn't going to work out for me. I'm sorry if I've made you feel like I've led you on."

There's rarely a case where more needs to be said.

 

I'm just going to take shot in the dark with this one, but I have feeling you infatuated with the attention.

It is obvious from your other threads/posts on here that you are dealing with a lot of self-esteem issues right now and the feeling that he wants you is probably amazing. However, going down this path of obsession with the desires of others is not a good one. You are still quite young and it would be tragic to start down that path now.

 

Just delete his number from your phone ffs. Block it if you have to. You keep indicating to us you clearly don't want to go through with this (unless you're lying through your teeth), but are somehow lacking the impulse control to stand your ground. So if you can't muster the willpower to keep telling him no, do something to physically prevent you from texting him.

 

I will repeat: if you are not capable of the willpower to prevent yourself from doing something you don't want to do, put something into place so that you CAN'T do it.

Your friend would be more pissed at you not talking to him than if you had sex with someone you didn't care for? Some friend she is; clearly has your best interests in mind, right?

 

That's a really, really lame excuse as to why you can't just text him and call it off. You're only "in too deep" once you've already done something with him that you'll regret. The longer you wait the worse it gets; like pulling a Band-Aid. Just tell him.

 

Agreed. Lame excuse.

Seems like now you are justifying it to yourself because in too deep is not an excuse to sleep with someone you don't want to.

You already regret sexting him. Imagine after you do it how you will feel.

 

Bwaha this reminds me of highschool.

As some other people said, oral sex is sex.. it is in the title of the deed. However it is not that attaching or emotional, anal sex is so much more intimate.. so I'm iffy on the subject. You can really call it what you will.

Also, I don't know about other people on here... but cuddling NEVER stays at cuddling. Yeah it starts out cuddling and a movie, then a kiss, then making out, then biting.. and you get the drift. As you have already been told, you are not even close to "being in too deep".. you have not even met the kid, none the less have had any form of sexual relations with him. You just have to chill and explain to him he is not what you are looking for.

"He is your friends best friend" so? If your friend has such a problem with you not wanting to be with a guy, there is a much larger problem in the relationship. Friends are not a dictatorship, you have the right to be with who you want. If your friend has such a big problem with that, then there is something wrong there.

 

In future, I'd suggest using caution when you compliment people - it's a nice thing to do, certainly, but not everyone will understand that when you compliment people you're doing it in a 'harmless' sort of way that doesn't necessarily equal showing physical or romantic interest in someone. If you regret, in your own words, pretty much being a tease, then I'd also suggest being more aware of how people might interpret your behavior in future. Leading people on isn't a great thing to do, and it can make the other person feel used/disrespected. Just something to remember for the future

 

oral sex is sex....if you gave a blowjob to another, and that was more pleasurable than his partners givings...would he not go back for more? it's classed as cheating...I'd hate to think my partner would not consider this as not cheating as it is. Intimacy is with the one you love not with anyone else.....ok I'm off my soap box now

 

Even tho im 13 and a virgin, in my opinion its sex
Its called "Oral Sex" for a reason
No offense
(!) Dancing Bananas For You (!)

 

Yeah spooning leads to forking...

Also you say stop anytime you want to.

 

Dude, never do anything to just get experience. If you are super excited about giving a BJ, then you can do it if you really want, but do you really want to have someone's dick in your mouth right off the bat? But yeah, wait for it to be meaningful and do it for the right reasons. Preferably with someone you have met in person.

That's just my opinion; but this has trouble written all over it.