Are you submissive or dominant?

I'm flexible in a societal manner. I'm not pushy, but I don't get pushed. I tend to be as relaxed and to-the-sides as possible. I just don't dig hostile vibes, so I stay as mellow and lively as necessary.

However, I do tend to put my company first, so this could be taken as a slight nudge towards dominance. But having someone who was witty, would be willing to discuss (not argue, if possible) opposing views, and stood their ground, is nice. If I wanted a total push over, I'd get a punching bag, LOL.

 

i feel like this is a really really personal question

but id sub most of the time

 

Sexually submissive, but otherwise indifferent. I don't want to dominate anyone, but I don't like being pushed around either - so I'd call myself assertive when necessary. If I don't want to do something, I'm not going to do it.

 

"In the bedroom" (not based on experience :lol, I'd probably like some semblance of equality. I suppose there'd be days when one of us would rather take the reins, but in the long run it'll probably average to an egalitarian situation.

This also would apply to all aspects of the relationship.

 

VERYVERY submissive, using Belles scale propably about -10 ^.^

 

I'd have to agree. Funny, but who's on top never figures into a heterosexual relationship. Having fairly recently, I can't say there is a preference, but the roles of dominant or submissive seem to me to be pretty mutible.

 

Both, depending.

 

I'd say I'm submissive.

 

Submissive in the bedroom, rather dominant outside that.

 

Depends on my mood :lol:

 

In my "fake life" I am rather assertive in my everyday life. That being said I am closeted. With groups of friends I don't lead. It's kinda weird because the less I know you the more dominate I am because I just don't care. I'll sit back and watch what happens in a group until nothing gets done then I take over. I always try to be the leader but at the same time I always want to be mildly likable. If I know you for a long time I am more submissive. As for the relationship part I would love to be with someone that cared and comforted me so I would be submissive in that part but I don't really know because I have never been into a real relationship

 

I'm dominant around dominant people if I feel I've had enough otherwise I'm neither really.

 

i am a post op transsexual living in nyc

 

Definitely submissive I like being pampered and treated like a princess

 

Um. I am practically a nun so I'm not sure about relationships, but as for general life? I'm not too sure? On one hand I like being in a position of power, but in actuality I'm pretty submissive, I guess. Not to say that I let myself get walked over, but if I don't see a reason to argue or protest then I just won't, you know?

 

I'm completely submissive; in and out of the bedroom.

 

I'm so submissive topping a guy doesn't appeal to me.

 

Dominant, but I'm not opposed to subbing for someone I truly cared about.

 

Pretty much this.

 

I definitely prefer things to be pretty equal in my relationships, but I do tend to be a tad bit more dominant. So I'm in the middle leaning slightly towards dominant.