Is he gay?

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  1. Johndoe

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    So my question here is, is he gay! I have always thought this guy was hot! So me being bisexual and not out yet wanted to get horny. So I dared him to watch a porn video. Of course we both were now erect and we just talked about how much we do this. We were watching straight porn and I got up to go to the bathroom a couple times to make sure he saw my erection sticking out. He when to the bathroom and I didn't see his boner. I dared him tO stand up in the. Orner to see if he was erect but he would not do it. I was wondering if he is gay or bi and was just being very cautious so I wouldn't suspect. What are some ways to secretly find out for sure if you think he is?
     
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    UUUUMMM not really sure maybe if u kinda slipped your hand on his cock (accidentally) when u where watching porn,that might be kinda forward but may work.
     
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    ...The problem with people being horny is that it's hard to tell if they are actually gay, or just wanting to get their rocks off. Personally, I would avoid the porn route >.>
     
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    1.) You say you were watching straight porn, so if he was erect (which you aren't even sure he was) then that doesn't necessarily mean he's gay/bi, it could mean he was turned on by the straight porn...And if he wasn't erect, that doesn't necessarily mean that he is gay/bi either, it could mean that he was self-conscious about watching porn with another person.

    2.) I don't think that him refusing to stand up was him being cautious about you guessing his sexuality, he might of him self-conscious about showing another person his boner (if he had one). Or if he didn't have one, he could have been embarrassed by that as well because you seemed to make it quite obvious that you had one.

    3.) The main point is that there is a possibility that all the things could be signs that he is gay/bi but there is also a possibility that they have nothing to do with sexuality at all...it's all just speculation. The only way to actually know that he is gay/bi is for him to tell you.
     
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    Yeah I know kinda weird
     
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    Well, I never needed bait in order to seduce a guy. I just had the balls to grab their... balls. lol. The moment right before is always really tense, but if he'll let you rest your arm near his crotch, he'll probably let you do more than that. It used to make me feel good to intimidate a guy by being so forward, but you live and learn that it's not really a productive relationship to involve yourself in.
     
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    Wow, that was a poorly put together scheme. The irony is that he probably posted about it from his perspective somewhere online. Something like

    "My friend and I were watching a porn, but I think he had an upset stomach, because he kept getting up to go to the bathroom. Then he asked me about my boner. What a weird guy."
     
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    You should have used gay porn.
     
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    :roflmao:
     
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    Yep. Very poorly put together scheme. Real life is a lot more different than the homoerotic stories on the Internet :rolle: Even if he were gay it doesn't mean that he's going to have sex with you or anything like that.

    If you want to find out, ask him. That's how I found out a friend of mine (whom I'm head over heels in love with) was gay.
     
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    I had a good laugh with some of the above comments.
     
  12. Ditto.
     
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    Ok I have saw alot if the mods post this with ppl trying to figure out what thare sexualty is by watching porn and no u can not becase as (i don't rember) said that he has a gay freind and the only kind of porn he can watch is lesbian porn and he is gay (the mod.'s freind and Realy u can't tell by porn it just does not work that way

    Hope I helped

    Austin/capitichino