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1st born son gay, how the hell did this happen.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by bdman, Oct 11, 2011.

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  1. malachite

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    I've read those reports too, and like it says the odds are more likely.

    So, you were the 1st born son and gay, those were your odds. Nothing odd about it (no pun intended)

    Stop thinking so much about it and start trying to come to terms with it then you can start to enjoy it.
     
    #21 malachite, Oct 12, 2011
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    Ditto, firstborn queer here too.
     
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    Me too. I think it's just stereotyping which is wrong. It's only a theory anyway.

    I'm taking it you watch this video:

    Is Homosexuality a Choice? - YouTube
     
    #23 george678, Oct 12, 2011
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    LEXINGTONN. You're funny.
     
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    Wow that is funny, mine is an L4/L5 disc problem also.

    Are you watching the Vancouver Canucks game tonight? Almost sounds like we are the same persoon. :-D
     
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    haha, nope not watching the game tonight. I usually wait for the playoffs. I never could skate so I didn't play and thus never followed the NHL closely.

    You are still you. Good luck with the back.
     
    #26 bdman, Oct 13, 2011
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    Thats the 1st time i have heard of that. im the oldest too but im okay with it. You should try to feel more comfortable with who you are instead of what you could have been. I feel that you dont like urself because ur gay...
    Norms are things that people give power to, like a social construction. No one said that you had to follow every norm. Your awesome just the way you are. Things are changing so stay positive and dont think about it much. Be happy for who u r. Do you =]
     
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    First-born, last-born, middle child, only born, all boys, all girls, one of each--it doesn't matter. Being in a minority within a minority is not a burden, but a privilege. You're rare and valuable.

    I'm an only child and a Chinese woman who happens to be homosexual, and while it's not all cupcakes and unicorns, I wouldn't want it any other way, because there aren't that many people like me!
     
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