confused.. I need help!!!

Well ummm, So you like flirting and kissing with girls but you don't get emotional with them. While you shy away from boys? but you develop feelings for them? Well I'm not really sure if I can be of much help but maybe you're bisexual?

 

Well you only jack off to gay porn.....that says a lot, don't you think. I think you are just being shy when your gay friend tries to kiss you. Let your emotions lead the way! Don't be afraid to express them. You have plenty of time to figure this out. Enjoy life, whatever direction it takes you.

 

Hi and welcome to EC. This is a great site to help you figure things out. Many people on EC have been through the same questioning process at some point.

Here are some questions to ask yourself that may help:

1. When you see a hot couple walking towards you, do you look at the guy or the girl first?

2. At the beach or a pool, do you find yourself looking at the guys more than the girls?

3. When you masturbate, do you think about guys or girls?

4. If you look at porn, do you look for gay or straight porn?

5. Even if it is straight porn, are you focusing more on the guy than the girl?

6. Have you tried to have relationships with girls but just felt that there was something missing?

7. When your friends are looking at hot girls, do you feel little real interest in them?

8. Do you feel little or no interest in actually trying to get a girlfriend?

 

i think that when you pull away from you friend trying to give you a kiss its probably you being insecure. Maybe you feel like if he kisses you people will think your gay and you are probably scared of that. I dont really know if this helps. im just saying because this is how i felt when my guy friends would act gay and i would be the only one uncomfortable to play along.